Pornography isn't degrading.

hey sith, a woman can enjoy porn and still find it degrading, they're not mutually exclusive. I have only seen a limited amount of porn and what I've seen I've seen no woman climax, know of any titles where they do?

 

So your problem with porn is that women dont cum? So if more women had orgasm in porn it would be ok then? Dont know if you realize, but most women dont come during sex, porn or not. Few women are fortunate enough to have someone who can bring them to orgasm. Some women have never even had one.

Besides, i have seen porn where women cum, especially lesbian porn.

 

so in that sense...porn is almost like reality...

 

If you mean from vaginal intercourse than true but if you mean from sexual encounters in general than I don't think that's true. Most couples engage in foreplay so the woman can cum. Since most couples engage in 4play most women cum. The vast majority of women cum, like closer to 90% of women, not necessarily from vaginal intercourse but by other activities which most couples engage in, albeit some are more effective than others.

Porn skips the 4play or play a very minor role so women don't cum in those circumstances. It is that unreciprocated part that gets to me, gratuitous sex is degrading. Gratuitous sex btw is not the norm and more women than not are fortunate to have some1 who can make them cum, how frequently tho is another question, but still, most women cum most of the time.

 

in soft core porn(ya know skinimax) it is always the guy going down on the girl and not the reverse. I guess cause its easier to hide a pussy than a dick?

Anyways...the audience of porn is overwhelmingly men, so it should be be surprise that it is geared towards men..

 

Check out some 'squirting' movies, like the Squirting Adventures of Dr. G. That's pretty much all that serise is about. If you look around enough you can even find female bukakke movies.

 

Oh, Sera, I just saw your post. I am so sorry that happened to you. It was what I was saying. It is awful to see one more womyn victimized by this crap.

My thoughts and blessings are with your healing.

 

You are absolutely right. It is degrading to all. I am sure some men look at the 10 inch penises of the "stars" of these movies and feel funny, (and they have NO reason to) or feel they, too, are expected to perform things they would rather not do, or enjoy. Thank you for bringing that up, Oz.

 

I have to say, if you KNEW what love, and REAL sexual love was, you would not say things like this at all. Sex plus love beats sex without love 100000000000000 to 1. Sex IS special, but only when you do it with a special person. If it's just sex for sex's sake, then, yeah, it's like an animal, and that isn't LOVE.

 

You are not being serious, are you? People who have been subjected to sexual assault as children are often social, emotional and functional cripples. Without help, NO, most of the people in the sex industry can't do anything else. OR, they were so brainwashed by their abusers, that they feel they aren't WORTHY of doing anything else. "Free Will" isn't as cut and dried as you think it is. Horrible experiences often ruin lives. How many porn stars, men or womyn, do you think are emotionally healthy people? I'd say few or none.

I have gotten the impression that you have a cushy life, NOT everyone does, and yes, dear, the world is MORE harsh than it seems. For many.

 

Not at all. I thought it was one of your better posts.

 

I, for, perhaps the second or third time in my life, and at a loss for words...........I have NO idea how to even process this, much less respond to it.

FTR, I wasnt't the one who said this:

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Which is why I should have stuck with my origional statement of not sayn' anything...

Just can't keep my trap shut sometimes. *laughs* I better stuff it with something nice and meaty before I make anyone else's paradigm ache.


(edited for spelling: With Maggie's nickle's worth and my paradigm, we'd have a quarter to put towards our spelling lessons .)

 

My paradigm feels fine.

(although neither one of us spelled it right. )

 

Pot calling the kettle black, don't ya think?

 

You sound like me when I argue with my husband...lol

 

Oh, the angry sex is great

But no, we don't argue a lot (did I make it sound that way?!). When things get heated we smoke a joint...lol

 

Watch A&E.
There's gay porn....no shit?!?!?!
Your age has to do with your opinions. THAT is why people bring it up.

 

Actually....on this point....it is a factor.