Hey, how many people out there have had, are having or would like to have a multiple partner relationship?
to be honest, every time i've been in a relationship and it's gone poly, it's signaled that the relationship is ending but nobody has the heart to just let it go. i've known some people who claimed to be very happy in open or poly relationships, but i've never had it actually work out for me.
It worked with us for a while, but one person was always competing with the us. She had to be right and better at everything. I know she was just insecure. I think the key is peace and absence of ego. It can work, but it has to be a really good fit.