Poll: Guys, what best describes your wife?

None of those - somewhere between 3 and 4. Mostly relationships (5 or 6) but there was a point in time in her 20s after she broke up with her long time b/f that, in her words, it didn't matter who he was. I don't know how many that is, not sure she does either - 30, 40, 50? Just me since we've been together.

 

I just re-read my post quoted above which I'd made a year and a half ago. In the ensuing time, I've done some more analytical thinking about those numbers and also teased a bit more info from her. Time for a revised posting.

She had only one guy before me. It was a semi-abusive (not physically) relationship where, being a totally inexperienced country girl, she wanted the attention of a male. He wasn't really interested, but saw a good thing and used it well. He never took her out or other normal things. They'd go to her house after work, she'd let him fuck her, then he'd leave. No meet-the-family stuff or such. This went on for about two years.

With better info now I've re-calculated the data, factoring in reality vs her emotion-based recollection. So where I'd written "380-400 times" is more accurately 220-240 times. Still, that's impressive numbers to go from total virgin to both lower holes well opened up, and in only two years. (She says no mouth work at all.)

That "squirting tips" thing and "more than that" was just a misunderstanding and semantics. And any activity before that time with the guy would have been impossible, since she was sharing a place with usually one, sometimes two, of her girl buddies, and going home on the weekends. I thought I'd found something interesting, but it was all just plain old boring normal stuff.

I tease her now and then, by telling her I've calculated the amount of semen she had put into her back then, and it's about 1.3 L., usually when she's holding a liter bottle of something.

So that clarifies that earlier post. She, like most women, is reluctant to talk about earlier times. But I get a drip or drop of information out now and than.

 

No wife for me lol

 

Me 1) Only one man has been inside. Some of my girlfriends fit #3 but 80% are in #1 or #2. My husband is a #4, He never talks about ANY girl but I know he was pretty popular with the girls when we met. It got pretty crazy at some times with women randomly showing him body parts. One slut at f'ing Chipolte was sitting at the window bar-seating and flashed him her pussy while I'm right there! One time at a Corporate Party (he's the EVP) I was at the bar talking to some woman and she says "I'm going to take him back to my room tonight." I said, "Bet you won't." Wanted to pull her hair out by her blonde roots. My rant is over.

 

i just read some of the posts. It seems like many of you had sex after marriage. I'm not stupid, I know it happens but how often/many share or want their wife to be with someone else. Not talking about fantasy but would actually follow through? My husband and I have been approached many, many times but always said "thanks but no thanks." We took 2 vacations at Hedo2 and we played in the hot-tub and we kissed another woman on a dare but I don't share well with others and neither does he.

 

#3. At 65 years old, my wife and I occasionally have another couple in our bed. This in done to enhance our already strong sex life….not replace it. It’s just fun sex. Nothing more.

 

SM, to each their own.

Panama made a good point. There's a thread somewhere on the attitudes and/or feelings of male in regard to such. Actually rather conservative it turns out.

Welcome to Hip. For the last year there's been a decided lack of female input on questions and opinions in the threads. Good to have you around now.

 

Wife says she has been with around 30 guys before me, I'm certain that the actual number is higher.
I know that when we first started seeing each other I asked her if anything had been going on with a guy we both knew prior to us becoming involved, she told me absolutely not and I took her at her word. Fast forward a couple of years and she admitted to a drunken one night stand with said guy. This always played on my mind and I brought it up again last year, after some prodding she admitted that they'd been fucking for a few weeks prior to us getting together but had stopped before she asked me out.
I've also noticed that occasionally she'll mention sex with other people from before me but then will say that she doesn't count them because she didn't enjoy it.
So how many? Not sure but I know it's more than she says

 

1

 

#2
All my ex’s were #2 also!

 

Similar experience here

 

My wife has been around & has had many sexual experiences with many different men & I encourage her.

 

That sounds great