Poll: Did you have sex with your spouse on your first date? Did it help or hinder?

Well, I had sex with my husband on our first "date," but I actually felt like I had "held out" at that point.

I was coming out of a slut phase where I had many one night stands. I met men in bars, and went home with them.

My husband and I worked together, we were out with a group of people after work one night. I had a reputation at the office. Anyway, I kissed him while we were dancing because I was interested in him, then he ran his hands all over my body while were were on the dance floor. He tried to convince me to come home with him, but I refused. So he asked me out.

So, a week later we had a real date, and then I went back to his apartment and we had sex.

We've been married 30 years this year, and together 35.

 

No,
She thought I was taking her out in the boonies to kill her. (I took a short cut that she did not know about)

 

Awesome!...........I had sex with my wife when she was a junior in high school and married her just before she graduated and we have
been for married for 25 years and she still has a hot pussy! Real hot..!

 

Yes we did, he had done some work for me in a professional manner, a week later he asked me if I would like to go out to dinner. I accepted, we dated a few more time before I raised the issue that my bi girlfriend who was visiting her family in Thailand was due back the following week. I made it very clear that she is a part of my life & he would be welcome to be part of our lives. He took a lot of convincing but agreed to give it a try. BOOM!! 7 years later & a marriage we all live as a permanent 3 some.

 

Yes, but then I have had sex with everyone on the first date.

 

I normally used to have sex on a first date,but with my hubby I held back and grateful that I did, because he only had sex with me after a month and we just grew from there. Had I had sex on the first date, he'd probably have fucked and left like every other man.

 

Well Treesa you must have had a sign that he might be the guy so after a month he was still interested in you, you were right !!!!!!!!!!!!! Good for you... but to tell you the truth I had sex with my wife on our first date and in only a few mounts we
we were married and now we have four kids well their not kids any more but any way we have been married now for 25 years and all though I share her now with other guys for the last 5 years our marriage is still pretty strong! Sex is a big part of our marriage with me and with other guys! My wife is 52 now no spring chick any more but it's been the real young guys who go after my wife even at her age! Good luck Treesa.............and stay as you are !!!!!!!!!!!

 

Yes, my wife met me at a nightclub & she took me home to her place & I had the best sex I ever had..

 

No.

 

No, it was several months before we had sex

 

I usually do with most of my partners, but I didn't with my bf. I think he was being polite, and I was going to give myself up to him that night but I didn't, don't think it hindered out relationship though.

 

Bend over just a little bit more please!.......

 

Sex on third date, but he did go down on me on our first date.

 

Four weeks later but it was worth the wait

 

He went down on you on the first date but didn't go any further ....? I did also but fucked her after! She had never experienced it before and she said she got scared when I want down on her but only for a little while then she even pushed my head in to her it felt so good and came right away!

 

We had sex on our first date, which lasted 4 days, so we had allot sex, that was 12 years ago so I guess it didn't hinder

 

That's not far enough..............and drop them panties..........lol.

 

Same here, she'd gotten dumped by real jerk after three years, so I had to slowly introduce her to the real world of how healthy relationships go. Was worth the wait, now 36 yrs later.

 

Good for you and her of course......................lol

 

Sex what we do with out it...............lol