please dont judge me

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  1. KEELEYELLIOTT

    KEELEYELLIOTT Guest

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    Hi,
    Im keels ive been in a civil parternship for nearly 2 years. I love love my wife so so much but we are at the stage that we are getting on each others nerves. I can help thinking about cheating on her. Now i know what you might think but im actually a faithful person thats why im on here. I cant imagine my life without her but still i cant help but wondering (very frustrating!) Ive known i was gay/bi since early on. Ive had sexual experiences with 2 other women before my wife and both experiences made me think i was straight until i met my wife. I think about making excuses on going on training courses so i can go away for the night and meet women to sleep with. I dont actually do it but i think i need some advice on what to do! Please help me figure this out.
     
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    what does being gay/bi have to do with cheating on your wife with women. do these chicks have dicks. what r you leaving out?...
     
  3. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    you lasted a whole 2 years....for fuck sakes....cut the poor lady loose and stop messing with her life because you cant keep your dick in your pants
     
  4. KEELEYELLIOTT

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    Great advice cheers!!
     
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    Gay/bi - I like men but no where near as much as ladies. I've not cheated on her and no she doesn't have a dick! I'm just asking for advice not criticism!
     
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    wobs Senior Member

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    hello
     
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  8. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    i wont judge you
     
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  10. Philippi

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    Talk to her, let her go or stay with her. Maybe, if you talk to her, you both could agree that both can have more partners.
     
  11. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Hello. Truth will set you free. Whatever it is....
     
  12. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    and that was not a judgement. I don't do that....not my place to ever.
     
  13. morrow

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    You want other people, she gets on your nerves....get gone girl...your time with her is over, let heer start again! Just remember next time, dont commit, you get bored after 2 years! Good luck.
     
  14. BeachBall

    BeachBall Nosey old moo

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    Key question, Keely ... WHY are you getting on each other's nerves?

    (And is it mutual ... or are you just assuming that if she's getting on your nerves, you must be getting on hers?)

    You've been together two years. The honeymoon period is over, and now the hard work begins. If you love her, if you wanna stay together, then you gotta start communicating with one another. And that means facing up to and talkign about the difficult issues, as well as the easy ones, not just brushign them under the carpet and hoping they'll go away.

    They WON'T go away.

    So you gotta address them, together, and find some solutions that work for the two of you.

    Best of luck ...
     

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