It would be very helpful for people who have visited these could help me in two categories: ⭐️1) which of these two has nicer and more complete facilities? Is one more upscale? ⭐️2) for a couple that would be in our room by 9 or 10, would my wife see blatant Lifestyle activities? How likely would she be to see oral sex or intercourse in public areas before 9 or 10? Number 2 requires more explanation. When in the mood, my wife enjoys sex in very risky locations. However, before she gets in that mood she can be very judgmental! In her “good girl” mode she would be shocked and probably disapprove of couples getting it on in public settings…even tho she’s had plenty of risky sex! She might be mad at me choosing Caliente and stay in “good girl”, churchy mode. OTOH, if almost all public sex happens after her bedtime, the environment could bring out her love of risky sex. (Personally, I’m fine with the LS settting even tho I wouldn’t participate with other couples. I would enjoy watching others get busy. I would like a staying somewhere that allows me to sport a hard dick. I would enjoy playing with my wife knowing others might be watching.) I would prefer a setting like Caliente, but as the saying goes “happy wife, happy life!” My main interest is in a nude vacation if Caliente will ruin my wife’s mood….i know I’d prefer Cypress Cove. I would appreciate the groups help on this!
I haven't been to either; but it is also my understanding that Caliente has a swinger undercurrent. I believe they've even been kicked out of AANR for it. Cypress Cove is probably the safest bet. My wife can be adventurous and flirty too. But she prefers it to be innocuous, private and within her boundaries. We had the opportunity to go to Cap D'Agde a couple of years ago; and she turned it down flat. Because she knew that sexual activity there would not be innocuous, private; or within her boundaries. If your wife is anything like mine; I'd recommend playing it safe. If the goal is to get her to get comfortable with social nudity, keeping it "PG" for the time being will work better for the long run. And who knows; maybe eventually she'll get so comfortable with social nudity that she will entertain the idea of going someplace more "adult-oriented."
Cypress Cove does not allow any open displays of sex. Even exposing of erections can get you reprimanded. It's very family oriented.
I may know of a 3rd one in that area. Tho i dunno their current status. I just cant remenber the name of it. Ill contact the owner.