Yesterday, my wife said "I think you like the feeling of being teased and denied, more than the feeling of a wonderful orgasm". I'm not sure, I like the three or four seconds of extreme pleasure, but I don't like the three or four days of losing the feeling of being horny and submissive.
I guess the men on this site have not tried orgasm tease and denial...too bad, you don't know what you are missing, the feeling is unbelievable. Just google it and read up on it. https://www.kinkly.com/2/1165/sex-tips/bdsm/orgasm-denial-its-more-fun-than-you-might-think