Perving the wife through questions - help required

Lately I’ve been questioning my wife about her sex life, her feelings on sex etc. I cal”ll it perving her. I’ll ask is it ok to perv you today, and if I get the go-ahead I’ll ask her questions like:

How many erect penises have you had in your mouth?

Have you ever touched another woman?

Do you prefer to be shaven or unshaven?

Without any follow question from me….how do you rank the size of my penis to the others.

etc.

It’s been great fun and I’m learning a lot more about my wife, without it sounding like an interrogation. I recently asked her if we were to have a threesome, would it be with another man, or woman. She immediately said “We’ll it wouldn’t be a with another man!” She now openly admits to liking the fantasy of being with another woman….but doubts if it will ever happen.

The thing is….I’ve ran out of questions to ask!

Can you folks suggest new questions I could ask?

 

Some questions in life are best not asked or answered!

 

Maybe that’s it with the questions if there are none left. Trying too hard may not be fun for either of you

 

when did you first orgasm
when did you first ogasm during sec
best orgasm
longest orgasm
how old when had sex
and various follow on
oldest and youngest person had sex with
how lost viginity, who when how old and so it can go on
funnest place had sex
Strangest place had sex
How many in 1 day
where and how often have you had cum inside you
have you used the morning after pill
how many uncircumsized/circumsized - which do you prefer for oral/vagianl/anal
mastebated with other woman
and loads of other , if you wanted to .....

 

Noted. I always try to filter out the ‘heavy’ questions. Just the fun ones are put to her.

 

How about; Do you want roses or candy for Valentine Day?

 

@jimandjan No need to ask….always flowers

 

To the OP. As with any strong relationship, open communication is essential. That said, sex talk between a husband and wife is filled with facts, fantasies, discovery and desires, but it is also exciting. Respectfully, You need to be just as open and honest with her. Do not perv her for your on ego. You will be surprised how it will enhance your relationship with her.
My wife and I have a consensual non monogamous marriage and it all started with open communications regarding sex. Best thing we have ever done for ourselves. No questions are off limits with us.
Pm if you want to chat more.

 

Thanks for the reply. My wife participates willingly, to the extent she actually said to me on Saturday that I hadn’t been ‘pervin’ her recently and asked if there was anything wrong.

I know the boundaries. I’d also add that my wife admitted that it’s easier to share her fantasies when we chat this way. We’ll always say “In our fantasy world….”

She’s asked me few questions too, and I’m always happy to answer.

My wife is a tough character, she’ll soon tell me if I’m going too far

 

Do you masturbate when I’m not around?
When was the last time you remember getting wet when I wasn’t around?
Does the sight of a guy shooting a big powerful load turn you on?
Do you ever think about being DP’d?

 

I’ve asked 3 of the above questions JCSouthern1….the answers were No, (to be asked), No and No

 

as above

 

Well that was disappointing but i would be glad she’s honest and didn’t just say what she thought you wanted to hear. I know my wife has asswered no, in her car, yes and yes. I think your wife is probably in the minority on # 4. Most women have at the very least thougt of it. I asked mybwife one day when we were fooling around if she would watch a porn clip with me. She said why? I said, “promise you won’t get mad? She said ok. I said “ no im serious, ill show it to you but you have to be open minded to it. “. She said, “i”m not hoing to get angry, I promise but tell me why you want me to see it. “. I said “I found this several month ago and this woman looks just like you”. She said “AND?” I said “ ok remember don’t get mad…….and i jerk off to it sometimes “. She said “well lets see”. I start to play it and it starts right out show the woman riding this big black guy. You can’t see her face and from that view she looks JUST like my wife. About 30 seconds goes by and another black guy comes up behind her and inters her ass and this women lets out the most lustful moan youve ever heard. Im watching my wifes reaction and i say “you ever thought of this scenerio?” She said”not alot but i have wondered and been curious before”. She said “Do you want to see me done this way”. I said “do you like this clip?” She nodded her head yes. “I said, it makes me want to jack off. She said, well whats stopping you? I said only if you will too. She said, go get my magic want and the lube. When i came back her eyes were glued to the screen and she had 3 fingers buried knuckle deep in her pussy.

 

@etaf here’s your update
when did you first orgasm - Asked, she was unsure
when did you first ogasm during sec - with me
best orgasm - too many to say
longest orgasm - screwed up face when asked
how old when had sex - 16
and various follow on
oldest and youngest person had sex with - 20/18
how lost viginity, who when how old and so it can go on - asked. Already knew answers but a little more detail given
funnest place had sex - all very vanilla
Strangest place had sex - as above
How many in 1 day - how dare you suggest more than 1
where and how often have you had cum inside you - vanilla again
have you used the morning after pill - never
how many uncircumsized/circumsized - to be asked as some point in the future
which do you prefer for oral/vagianl/anal - depends on mood, but not anal
mastebated with other woman - never

 

Through our discussions I’ve found out that she doesn’t really go for Male & Female porn as it often looks painful or uncomfortable to her.
She prefers lesbian porn if pushed.

Recently we watched lesbian porn where they were slapping each others breasts. This definitely got a reaction from her. And I’ve noted that for future reference.

On that subject, can anyone recommend any tit slapping lesbian scenes

 

Update for @etaf

how many uncircumsized/circumsized - which do you prefer for oral/vagianl/anal

She’s never seen, held or received a uncircumcised penis.

 

I've given up asking. Only two hookups would ever answer anything. I had to tell by signs etc. I can ask my wife anything. She used to answer about her past, etc, but as for what turns her on, what she likes to do, she just says, 'I've never really thought about it', like as if her memory has been wiped. My half sister, on the other hand was extremely open, discussing everything she likes doing, how many fucks she's had how big the biggest cock was she took. She wanted to tease and get it off her chest. Probably saw me as a safe dumping point. Frustrating to the max.

 

My wife has two sisters….maybe I should be asking them

 

Before my wife and I were married we used to do this all the time, especially on long car rides. I used to make her squirm but she enjoyed it. After 20+ years we should try this again.

 

Sometimes too much information is a bad thing, eventually it will give you a complex.
I would just lay off and then revisit the question of a threesome and other things she may not have tried. Now that you have asked some questions let them brew in her mind and see if she revisits them. If you keep asking she will eventually feel like you’re interrogating her.