personality vs appearance

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by indian~summer, Jun 29, 2009.

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  1. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    With my looks personality is a must.
     
  2. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    you don't know me at all but thanks for judging me :)
     
  3. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    Jeez.
    Some people get their panties in a bunch over nothing.

    There is nothing wrong with questioning what attracts you to others...apparently some people just flip a coin because actually having preferences isn't very hippie...:rolleyes:
     
  4. olhippie54

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    At this point I have one major preference..if they're still breathing that's good enough.
     
  5. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    But I don't think you would begrudge a 21 year old to be a little more choosy. ;)
     
  6. olhippie54

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    I was 21 when I was your age!!
     
  7. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    That's amazing! Mostly because I'm 36...
     
  8. olhippie54

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    I was 36 too!!! What are the odds?!
     
  9. ChronicTom

    ChronicTom Banned

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    I judged the words you used.... HUGE freakin difference...

    Perhaps you are too addled to remember them, so I will help...

     
  10. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    have you evr heard of sarcasm?
    it's a literary device that is "a form of wit that is marked by the use of sarcastic language and is intended to make its victim the butt of contempt or ridicule"
     
  11. ChronicTom

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    I have... and you should have read what you wrote before you posted it...

    What you are now saying is that you were sarcastic when you posted that... so you intended to make it's victim (you) the butt of contempt and ridicule.....

    Congratulations, it worked...
     
  12. lode

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    The target of sarcasm wouldn't be her, the 'victim' would be what she was ridiculing by being sarcastic.

    You're confused with self deprecation.
     
  13. lode

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    And for the babe catching aspects out there.

    Self Deprecation works really well when your perceived value is too high.

    How was that Hyphy? :biggrin:
     
  14. lode

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    As for me, is this just a one night stand question?

    Because I'll take the dummy with the magnificent gams.
     
  15. ChronicTom

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    Her target was herself... nobody else was mentioned... it was her she was speaking about, saying of herself

    Besides which, look at the choices she offered... all of them are about physical appearance, with modifiers based on other things...
    In each, the emphasis is on the physical, the package...

    That does indeed make her shallow, regardless of whether or not she meant the last part as sarcasm and whether or not it was a good use of it.
     
  16. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i'm really surprised you can type so much with your thumb up your ass...

    lode has it right, i wasn't playing the victim here i was making a joke about it
    i did my best to keep myself out of it so as not to play the victim but still ended but in it based on people's perceptions
    whatever i do not have to justify myself to someone on the internet who is clearly close minded

    i like this and i think i should try it sometime
    seeing as i'm really shallow but equally really hot self deprecation would work really well for me
    whatever self deprecation is, i mean i'm so shallow i don't know what that means...
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    ignore the troll and it will go away...
     
  18. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    This is way too complicated, who I would feel a connection to isn't..
     
  19. ChronicTom

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    You are the one who considers appearance to be the most important part of choosing a partner, and you think I'm closed minded??

    Priceless...
     
  20. Ocean Bionic

    Ocean Bionic Hero of the People

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    So you bump uglies?
     
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