I agree we should end this too, one fun subject has turned into something that shouldn't have, as my dear friend Ghorgysays life should be fun so from now one let's not get too serious with all things.
can i just say soaringeagle u know exactly what your talkin about and if more men thought like you men and women could live in imperfect harmony for ever loveing eachother for being themselves. thank you!!!! i have a big hug comin your way
Soaringeagle, you've got a beautiful mind and a fantastic outlook on life. I've read a lot of your posts and you always seem to hit the nail squarely on the head. Sometimes a little too hard, but accurate none the less. Real beauty shines from within. The inital post cracks me up though, it reminds me of the Waynes World A to Z where the made a montage of Wayne and Garth's idea of a perfect woman including the legs of Julia Roberts and the butt of Wilma Flinstone.... Perhaps a leading soap manufacturer is on to something with their campaign for real beauty.
Hmmm what about a perfect man? How come nobody pressures men into being a woman's idea of 'perfect'? Oooh that's right...because women were created only to please men's sexual desires and pop out babies. *sarcasm* How in love with yourself can you possibly be to think that there will be a woman out there who will make herself suffer just to fit your idea of perfect? You must be pretty amazing...(again, sarcasm) It's guys like you tht make me want to get down on my knees and thank GODDESS that I am a lesbian. & It's guys like SoaringEagle that would make me wish I were bisexual. Anyways, how about you make a couple thousand bucks and ask the leading blow up doll manufacturer to build this 'perfect' woman for you? Good day, moron.
I always thought the two most beautiful women were Audrey Hepburn and Elizabeth Taylor. Kidman doesn't come close.
you must be joking if you think that society places no pressure on men to be a certain way, look a certain way or behave a certain way
Perfection lies in imperfections for me, the more quirks and oddities you possess the better. When i think "perfect" in terms of the greater society I think "stepford wives" and I wouldnt want to be that at all... ever... And that picture of Kidman is atrocious. I dont find her attractive physically at all, I dont see it. That picture is of a perfect woman? She looks horrible. Physical attractions will vary from person to person, but perfection can't be based solely on looks. It just can't. We would all suffer.
Beauty is WHO you are.. not what you look like !! You only have to be beautiful for one person on earth.... yourself !! Of course we all have our ideals or this or that appeals to each of us. But waht is inside ??