People without their own hobbies

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bella Désordre, Feb 16, 2009.

  1. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I might think that if he didn't call me a bitch in this thread first and insinuate my husband was ugly.
    I mean come on?
     
  2. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    You said some nasty things here too, but you don't seriously hate on those people right? It's an internet forum, don't let it get to you when someone on here called you bitch or called your hubby ugly if they don't even know him ;). It's rarely ment as personal as we sometimes feel like taking it at first instance. By the way, not everyone has a good sense humor.
     
  3. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    No, I don't really hate anyone, but I def don't respect them.
    I don't take it personally, but I am also not going to sit here and let people insult me over and over without saying anything. If there's enough bait in the water, it's just a mater of time before you bite.
     
  4. hippiehillbilly

    hippiehillbilly the old asshole

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    :spam:

    Because no one likes you anymore..;)
     
  5. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    Yeah and it all seemed to happen when I got married and stopped posting bathing suit pics of myself...funny
    I love how most of the guys on here always had my back until I got with Andy. I sure know who my friends are now though :).
    No, it's not spam. Gary implied I make pinic basket liners on Ebay, and I don't.
     
  6. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Men are swine XD
     
  7. hippiehillbilly

    hippiehillbilly the old asshole

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    FWIW,i never liked you and i count my blessings every day that ive never saw you scantily clad..;)
     
  8. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I don't know about that. Some persons are more eager to bite. Mostly the persons who get defensive real fast or feel easily personally attacked. Just saying, I know some people like to express their opinion needlessly rude but that's just how it is. Doesn't mean there is a personal attack involved :)
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    proven wrong! :cheers2:

    i never saw bella's sexy pics, and i still think she's ok when she isn't trying to start delusion-based fights with everyone here...
     
  10. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Me too.
     
  11. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    How old are you? I had the feeling you were in high school before? Or university?

    You speak truth and wisdom. Miguel Ruiz has a book out called The Four Agreements. The first one is that you should take nothing personally. All anyone ever does is speak from their own experiences and biases. Lashing out is not always personal against the other person as much as an indicator of where our buttons are. Where we need to be less sensitive about. I believe this wholeheartedly, not just belief but knowing. Its just a matter of a bunch of people living on the Earth each with their own perspectives. We bump into one another. But we don't have to think everyone is out to get us because something rubs us the wrong way:):cheers2:
     
  12. hippiehillbilly

    hippiehillbilly the old asshole

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    which is when??? :rolleyes:
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i swear i've seen it on occasion... :confused:
     
  14. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    That is a really good point and is always what my husband says. He also says people who don't have a lot of joy in their life aren't going to be able to find joy in someone else's life, especially when someone else's life is going well.
    I think I am going to take this advice now. i guess I just had to learn for myself and I did.
    I am glad I learned it on the internet instead of having to deal with people cutting me down or not liking me in real life :)
     
  15. chemigals

    chemigals They call me Chemi

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    My old friends have no hobbies.............I find it strange.
    What do they do???
    I just dont get it.I have so many I cant fit them all in!!
     
  16. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    I get that too. :cheers2:
     
  17. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    That's how I feel! I can't stick to one thing either. I am such a hit and run hobbiest.
    What kind of stuff do you like to do?
     
  18. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    :) You seem like an old soul
     
  19. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    haha.. I'm a take that as a Compliment. :D
     
  20. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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