People who tell you to get your hair cut, shave your beard, etc

Why can't just they do what they themselves want without making the people the way they want?

That is a very annoying thing for me. I don't ask anybody to change their looks. I will be as I want.

 

What do you mean by that?

 

When you ask people for suggestions on how you might improve yourself or the way that you look, you’re not always going to get the answer you desire.

 

I never asked for suggestions. I just opened a thread about whether I look older than 30 or not. A suggestion was not asked on the thread.

And the answer is, according to people on internet I look older than 30 but according to people in real life (face to face), I look about my age, which is 30. That's the opinion difference between people on internet and people in real life.

Believe it or not, a lot of people estimate my age around 30 in real life (face to face) from the face feature despite the long beard.

If we come to the point of this thread, a friend of mine forced me to cut my hair off and shave my beard. He made me go to the barber with him, which was forcing, outside of my wish. You cannot force somebody to do something you want. Aside from that, what chanced after that? I can say nothing chanced. Did a woman look at me after? No.. So what changed? Tell me?

Until my late 20s, I had light, short beard . And that did not change anything in my life. Lol.

Now I did not get my hair (head hair) cut for about 4 months and it bothers the same friend. He threatened to cut my hair with his hair machine by force when we last met. That person used to be my close friend but we hardly meet any more.

 

I tell them to go look in the mirror and to make sure not to break it.

 

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If we come to the point of this thread, a friend of mine forced me to cut my hair off and shave my beard. He made me go to the barber with him, which was forcing, outside of my wish. You cannot force somebody to do something you want.
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That is correct he cannot force you to do that. So why didnt you just tell him to f*** off?

 

If anybody has ever said this to me, I obviously wasn't listening.

 

Exactly. I am bothered a great deal by his forcing about how I should look. And after that, nothing chances really. So if nothing chances, For what am I doing it? It was obviosly not for myself. Was it for himself? It is my hair and my beard.

We hardly meet any more. He used to be one of my close friends.

 

As for why we dont meet often any more, that was not the reason. We have serious arguments over things which we have opinion difference from each other, that you may find stupid.

Our last argument was, about white hairs.

He is 3 years older than me. I am 30 and he is 33.

I have so very little white hairs from the sides of my head that you can consider like there isn't any white (in the profile picture, you see frozen hair at cold weather).

He has tons of white hairs. Too many.

I said you had too many white hairs at 33 because of your genetic. And he said it was because of him being stressed. The argument started with this. It turned into serious argument. After that stupid day, we hardly meet any more.

I have so very, very little white hairs at 30 (3 years isn't a big age difference), which can be considered as NO WHITE HAIR. And according to him, it is NOT because of genetic but because I have no stress, unlike him.

He kept saying his hair turned white because of being stressed and mine remained black because I have no stress, unlike him. And I myself said it was because of genetic.

The argument was over this.

 

According to him, the reason is he has too much stess and I have no stress.

According to me, the reason is GENETIC.

 

Gym teacher in '57 shoved a few bucks in my pocket at school and told me to get a haircut. Took the money and immediately ditched school with a buddy to shoot some 8 ball pool.