I work with a lady that undermines my very sense of wellbeing because she is such a bitch. Her whole philosophy in life is based around the idea that every single person on Earth is an idiot and/or cruel, except her. She talks incessantly about herself and takes no genuine interest in anybody else. She spreads gossip about me to my co-workers. She makes me feel like a bad person. Nobody ever makes me feel like a bad person. In fact, very few people bother me at all and most people like me, but this lady is not most people. Nobody likes her, and yet she constantly tries to make me out to be the horrible person. It is getting to the point where the only way I can make myself feel better is to be painfully blunt and say things like "You only ask people how they are as an opening to start talking about yourself don't you?". If I don't say these things I feel like a liar. It also helps to act like an asshole because it makes her shutup for a few minutes but if I do say these things, she uses them against me at every opportunity. I truly thought that no person could ever make me feel like shit ever again. I was wrong. Satan walks among us. I know I'll live.
It is OK. I think my very direct and honest attacks on her character have forced her to reevaluate her behavior a little, as arrogant as that sounds.
The best thing to do is be neutral, disengaged, aloof and courteous to her when she LEAST expects it at every opportunity. Fight the power, bro.
she probably is sex starved and wants to bone you but doesn't know how to say it, so she makes your life a living hell instead.
People who you can say "pure evil" dont really trouble me. If you do the same back , they seem to like it.Like they're gonna go off and play with their dicks. What I find harder , is people who are charming sometimes .Then say u are gonna do em a favour and they're just disdainful/obnoxious. That makes me MAD...Arrrrrrr!
That being nice to them shit doesnt work. They just bitch on you even more. Tell it to her straight like you have been doing. Its the only way
Ugh. I used to work with a really nasty woman who took great delight in starting trouble between others and then pretending to be innocent. It was entertaining for her to back-stab. You had to be really careful what you said around her.