Don't these folks realize it's a federal offense to open other peoples' mail? I used to go mailbox bashing with a baseball bat every weekend and we would always open the mail in the mailboxes that had their flags up, and we would find cash sometimes.
My wife opens my mail upon occasion, but mostly, I just open hers to see how much money the bitch has been spending and what kind of stuff she's not buying me
I don't know, I don't think I've ever had anyone open my mail before. At least, not that I can remember.
I wouldn't like it. I don't even open the bills that are addressed to my husband... Muddie can you get a post office box?
what mail? all i get are adds from "cupon shoper" and twofer pizza cupons. i don't think, if we're gonna have laws at all, that governments should get away with flouting them. i mean, that IS the whole reason to HAVE constitutions and all that sort of thing. but anyone who wants to snoop me is perfectly welcom to be bored to death. =^^= .../\...
My mom used to open my mail...bank statments,my paycheck stubs, cards from boyfriends and friends, bills-it pissed me off to know end. I got so mad one day that I was like look either I'll leave or you gotta give me my privacy. I paid rent then so I really didn't feel like it was fair. It was like she was hanging onto any aspect of my life she could still control. We get along so much better now that she doesn't open my shit.
give it time. When I moved back home at 22 it sucked at first and now it's a great set-up and I was really thankful for living here when I got laid off. She just cares about you.
makes me feel like getting a post office box and having all my mail directed there. or moving out. moving out is always good.
my parents don't..maybe on occation they'll open my visa bill, but that's cause they help me pay it, so i'm pretty happy with my parents in that repect i wish i got more mail though, i never get anything good just bills
i suggest either getting the mail before she does, so she doesn't have the opportunity to open your mail, or the more expensive alternative is get a p.o. box in your name so all your stuff gets sent there. I could give a flying crap if anyone reads my mail. It really isn't that personal.
my dad used to pull that shit on me all the time so I started opening his mail.. and I was like hey there's no secrets in this house.. the one time we had a bunch of company over and I Was in a mood and I opened it and I was like "HOLY SHIT DAD! YOU OWE THE PHONE COMPANY 230 DOLLARS!" lol.... twas funny.. but now that I moved out I dont really ever get my mail that goes to that house.. and here where Im at now Derek and I open each others bills and stuff just because like right now he's in Colorado and the phone and stuff is in his name so Im opening them so I can pay them.. and like when I go away he does the same..
My parents used to do that..i threatened to call the police. Told them that it was an offense that they could go to jail for..Now they collect my mail and give it to me when I come home. But the bad thing is that if it's a bill and I open it my dad looks at me and says "You opened it, you pay for it." even though I've mentioned numerous times I want to pay off all my medical bills and his response is...."I can claim them on my income tax." sooo i just throw them in his face and leave the room. Anyways I hope that things get worked out.
Mail her a turd-on-a-spring. Like a jackinthebox, only with a turd in place of Jack. Use a fake return address. That'll learn the bitch.
My mother does it all the time and I yell at her all the time. She opens my bills and shit clearly adressed to me and then she says "oh i though it was mine". I told her if she opens it, she has to pay it, unfortunatly thats not working out. Oh yes and she started reading my text messages. I try to tell her events and my life and she dosent listen then when I question why she is going through my stuff she says it's because I never tell her whats going on in my life and she is interested. Bullshit.
my mother Used to Read my Diary... God! All the Shit I Had Written in There... Still...Finally Got Over an ED... But...I'm Grown up Now...She Needs to Respect my Privacy... And Trust me... Also to Accept I Happen to Lead a Life...
One Time...She Got Hold of my mobile Phone... And was texting Rude message to my Boy Friend... Stupidly...Him Thinking it was me...Texted Back... I Still can't believe that Happend... I was in Hysterics...