No one has the vast majority of people approach them and want to be their friends NO ONE. I've been approached once my whole life outside of a bar by a stranger in a romantic/being-asked-out way. Once. (internet dating sites don't count for that to me). As for people just coming up and talking to me... a couple have, but only after we've been in the same class together for at least a month, usually two. You want what doesn't happen... no one is gonna want to approach someone who's filled with so much hatred, rage, and self-pity. It's just not attractive as a friend or lover. Very few people have anyone approach them to ask them out or to try and hang out with them.