Penis Size Obsession

Maybe. I actually had a conversation, not about this specifically but on men and women in general. Women are incredibly confusing, but because of that when we try to communicate not-so-subtle hints, men are afraid they're wrong so they rack their brains and ask around for the "right answer". Men aren't as complicated as women think that they are which confuses us, but sometimes, in GENERAL most of the guys I've dealt with are fairly dense when it comes to women.

 

I think I followed most of that. Can you oversimplify it for me?

 

She might have been talking about appearance. Maybe she was just trying to sound cool. And maybe she was being a bitch. Women do that sometimes.

 

lol
Women= complicated, by trying most of the time
Men= simple but overzealous and dense most of the time.
Better?

 

My penis could beat up your penis.
Simple as that

 

Duh...yes! Me like simple sentences. Me no like modern romance, which requires more effort than dragging bitch by hair, back to cave.
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If men are overzealous and dense, women often make crap more complicated than it needs to be by not saying directly what they think/feel/want/whatever.

We are "dense" only when we know that what you say isnt what you mean, and we are supposed to figure out what you really mean based on your "not-so-subtle hints", which is fine until we guess one wrong, then we start questioning every time after that.

Be direct, open, and honest, establish that and get used to it, and you will have far fewer problems with us being dense.

 

I don't think it's just women who make things overcomplicated- have you ever talked to a lawyer or anyone in IT?

Personally I have no issue about the size of my willy, and feel sorry for anyone that does.

 

I have never had a woman speak to the size of my (I feel silly using this word) penis. I have never had a woman speak to the uncircumcised condition of my penis. I have never had a discussion with a woman about penises in general. I have never heard any of my friends male or female, speak to the size or condition of any man's penis. I do not have any friends who are the slightest into embarrassing, or shaky when it comes to their self image. What can I say, other than worrying about something you can't change is stupid and immature. I never even knew guys worried about size, until I started on this hip forum adventure. Most of those who worry about size here seem to be young. I don't know what I thought when I was 15. I was already using the equipment with women and never bothered to look much at the guys in the locker room. In the Navy, there was this guy whose penis was shot off and he was fixed up with a phony roll of skin so he wouldn't look too disadvantaged. He chose a double long. It was really something. You shoulda seen the younger guys look at it when he undressed. What a blast! No, I wasn't jealous.

 

I was talking to a friend of mine about dick size one time and she said the great thing about a guy with a small penis is she could deep throat like a porn star with out gaging at all

 

Well, either dense or really good at acting dense. I think a lot of girls get tricked by that

 

Lemme ask you ladies something. Now I'm not obsessed about my dick. I think its a little small. There aint nothing I can do about it. So I don't worry about it. This, I believe, allows me to lay down some serious dick action cause I'm not tripping on how big I am or not. Now I'm completely confident in my um... prowess. But lets say I was a little longer or a little thicker. Which is better. Same moves, somewhat bigger cock.

My point is I've never heard a girl complain once about "above average"
Average is a nice way of saying your the same. Nothing pleasently surprising. However small a difference it makes, it does make a difference. So the only thing you can do is fucking tell your dude what to do, cause he aint gonna figure it out being worried about how small he is. Help him to help get you off. Cause if your cumming so hard it gets him off, I promise he wont trip about his tiny stick.

 

Well dude thats a harsh thing when your younger man. Your in the locker room, your 15, your gonna see dick and someones bound to be developing faster. So your not all fueled with dick growing testosterone or whatever it is that determines that shit and you go home and wonder why your not as big as other people.

I was really short in middle school and my dick used to be real small. And then I grew really tall. My penis didn't develop as fast. So I had been with a couple girls and never got to hit it twice, then people they talked to found out i couldn't hit it and that killed my game, till I learned to eat out the kitty! =D
Now these last couple years I've gotten bigger so thats cool.
And I have noticed new reactions to penetration. Same fuckin move its always been, slide it in halfway, quarter out, all in. Same move, now I can get a gasp if I angle it right lol.

I don't think we want to be "HUGE" but bigger than average is good.

 

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I also believe porn is a huge problem here. Everything in porn is intended to be exciting as possible. They tend to use people that are built a little better than a typical person, often have enormous breasts that are far larger than most women's, and enjoy using monster penises spraying massive eruptions of ejaculate. Then they go on lengthy marathon sex sessions involving ten or more positions and activities, even though most actual couples don't do it for nearly so long or anywhere near a dozen different ways during one single sexual encounter.

So what men are constantly seeing are massive meat missiles ten or more inches in length and as big around as a pop can, and most guys really don't come near that and feel they've come up short.

 

It wouldn't be so bad if everybody realized it is intended to be entertainment fiction. The young guys don't know.

 

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Is there any amount of money that us women could pay you guys to stop talking about the size of your dicks? This has got to be the most repetitious and boring sexual subject on earth!

 

Amen sister. You're basically stuck with what God gave you -- so deal with. Stop worrying about what size it is and concentrate on making the best of it -- and pleasing your partner as best you can.

As I said in another thread, my cock's not very big. But I've never had any complaints -- the women I've been with keep coming back for more. So whatever. Wife wife sure seems pleased with it.