Penis Envy

Knowing there's a bit of surprise with an entry that's a little deceptive (larger girth than expected), I've generally just gone in a little more slowly and gently as I can. But is that actually worse, and would it actually be better to just get it in and get that first bit over with. I've taken the 'gleam in the eye' I see as appreciative, hoping that it's not just wishful thinking but am I accurate in what I'm seeing?

 

Lots of lube and take it slow (keep in touch)

 

Contemplation can be fun!!!!

 

I would have loved to be the well endowed guy, who all the girls liked to have sex with. We would have little group get togethers, and every new girl got paired up with the guy with a big dick. Kind of an imitation.

 

Maybe for the same reason they suck - they enjoy it. My wife suggested anal. We took it slow and easy. Now we do it at least monthly. Yes, she wants me to cum in her butt.

 

It’s not the size of the ship it’s the motion of the ocean

 

Endowment doesn't cut it. Neither does how the man uses it. A guy with a small appendage can satisfy a woman just as well as a above average penis owner. And it doesn't matter how he moves as in the "Motion of the ocean" thought. If more men would learn that we are not responsible for our partners orgasm we would be a lot better fuckers. Only our partner is responsible for her orgasm no matter how our cock is used. To find out what we can do to help her along, regardless of the size we have, is to ask and follow directions. if you take that responsibility onus off your shoulders and learn what she wants in order to cum you'll find the size of your equipment is size enough.

 

Sometimes a 'like' just isn't enough!
If more men realized that (the quote) they would know that size doesn't matter. Indeed, I actually think guys who worry about size should use that as a measure of how little they know about pleasing a woman.
My exes have had no complaints in the trouser department and loved to jump aboard or bend over.
However, before all that, they preferred the light touch of my tongue and the gentleness of touch with my fingers inside them.
"Out of this world" was one description and they got better orgasms from my teasing and playing with their tender bits.
They did cum when we fucked or when they rode me but they had bigger stronger better ones when I used my fingers and tongue.

So be small, and be good and feel good about being small and good.

 

I'm on the small side of normal, wife says she is good with it, but I make sure she gets a good climax by using a big dildo (like a John Holmes dildo) to stimulate her. She often has 3 or 4 big climaxes with several smaller ones in between. She really enjoys the dildo but still enjoys me and appreciates the effort I take to make sure she gets properly satisfied. She has never asked for sex with another man but I know she's thought about it, I am open to the idea and told her that I would love to see her fuck a really big thick cock. I said that she deserved to experience the pleasure, joy, excitement, and satisfaction of big cock sex, something we continue to talk more about, going to keep.her thinking and fantasizing about taking a big thick cock, the pleasures, excitement, and satisfaction it will bring her, hopefully where her imagination goes, her body will follow. This has been a fantasy of mine and I told her so repeatedly, she should feel no guilt or regret and enjoy her desires, cravings, and fantasies, no holding back, let herself go and enjoy the opportunity with my approval and blessing.

 

I have a small penis. I’m also bisexual and I can tell you for certain that size matters. I wouldn’t hook up with a guy with a small penis. I’d rather use a sex toy than have sex with a guy with a small dick. I don’t suck small ones either.

 

Mine is 4.5” fully erect btw. It’s really small when I’m flaccid under an inch and I’ve noticed people pointing it out and talking/ giggling in nudist situations. It’s become a turn on, a fetish. I love walking on a nude beach or the gym locker room with my little nugget.

 

That has happened to me.
At one job, my female supervisor told me to hang Christmas lights, I had to stand on a ladder. So the women were looking at me down there, much like men look at women with large breasts.
A good friend, who was a lesbian, told me that they were making comments and making sexist remarks .

 

John (28 years) sees an urologist requesting for surgical penile enhancement, as he is dissatisfied with his flaccid penile length. As a 12-year-old boy, he was bullied by other boys during communal showers about his penile size. In addition, when he looked down at his own penis, it seemed really small compared with that of the other boys. He is gay, and has never had a relationship or any sexual experience with a partner. He is convinced that other gay men will find his penis too small, and he will not be desirable as a sexual partner. His beliefs are confirmed by gay pornography and infor- mation on the internet about what is the “normal” size of a penis. However, he has never had the courage to measure himself.

Hester Pastoor and Angela Gregory: Penile Size Dissatisfaction
https://repub.eur.nl/pub/127224/Repub_127224.pdf

1) I have also seen unusually small and unusually large penises, and wondered what effect that has on the sexual options that their owners think they have. As a bisexual top, I can confirm that penis size affects demand. As with other parts of the body, I don't admire size but beauty, which, as always, includes symmetry. I don't find a severely curved penis particularly edifying.

2) Anyone with a particularly small penis but who is sexually versatile can consider a career as a homosexual bottom. The same goes for men with a body size that does not meet female standards. So there you have it, homosexuality can be a source of hope in seemingly hopeless situations!

3) As far as male homosexuality is concerned, there seems to be a correlation for the receptive anal role with small penis size and gender atypicality:​

Top, Bottom, and Versatile Orientations among Adolescent Sexual Minority Men (2021)

Finally, the trends we found from our sample of ASMM [Adolescent Sexual Minority Men] were similar to SMM [Sexual Minority Men] regarding penis size and gender typicality.

Teens who identified as tops or versatile-tops reported more satisfaction with their penis size and more gender typicality.

Teens who identified as bottoms or versatile-bottoms reported less satisfaction with their penis size and less gender typicality.

Additionally, comparing these relationships between those who had anal sex and those who had not revealed no differences in the trends. […] No differences found by anal sex reduces the likelihood that anal sex behaviors or sexual interactions with a partner somehow changes or activates one’s self-label.

If the relationship between penis size or gender typicality and self-labeling exists prior to sex, a top or bottom label is likely not adopted as an adaptive response to a partners’ satisfaction or dissatisfaction with ASMM penis size or gender typicality. Moreover, given that penis size and gender expression in adolescents develop before sex (i.e., bottoming cannot shrink one’s penis or make a teen generally more gender atypical), predispositions toward anal penetrative orientation may exist prior to adolescence.

Top, Bottom, and Versatile Orientations among Adolescent Sexual Minority Men | 10.1080/00224499.2021.1954583_Scihub

 

kinda obvious. lol
Lots of us bottom types have small penises. I don’t even really involve that little fella in sex too much. Sometimes I don’t even get fully erect during sex. I can easily cum while being fucked almost always do so. I’ve been told it’s hot. Guys like it when my little ( 1.5” when limp and that’s often the state it’s in during sex) shoots cum on their belly while I’m riding.

 

A smaller-than-average cock isn't a turn-off for me, but cruelty is. I like smaller cocks; they're easier to deep throat, right up to the hilt. I'd never shut down a guy or shame him in any way simply for being smaller than average; that's just cruel

 

Everyone is different. I wouldn’t shame anyone for anything but I definitely prefer larger ones. I don’t have much trouble deep throating big ones and I love the full feeling when it’s inside me. Don’t have to be huge just bigger. I have a drawer full of toys and my go to toy is an 8” vibrating dildo.

 

Many cruel people have an inner pain and or inner conflict .... maybe somebody important in their life , didn't love them enough along the way

 

Going through puberty, all boys are self conscious about their penis and curious about the size and appearance of every every other penis. Back in the era when I was going through puberty, there wasn't a lot of pornography available, not even close to how prevalent and accessible that it is today. Therefore, the myth that you must have a horse cock in order to satisfy a woman wasn't that prevalent either. Yes, we were amazed at the boys that had huge penises, but in general we were all relatively the same. That being said, I have always been satisfied with the appearance and the size of my penis and all the women that I have been with were equally satisfied with the size and appearance of my penis. That being said, I am a definite "grower", my penis is anywhere from about 2 1/2 inches to 4 inches when flaccid, depending on the situation and the temperature. It's about 7 1/2 inches when fully erect. This is an anomaly that has amazed and a few women. They wondered how such a cute, tiny penis can actually grow into a beautiful 7 1/2 inch hard on! So, I have never been self conscious about the size of my penis, even when around a large group of naked men.The only way to look at it is that it's what nature gave you and there is nothing that you can do about it without major surgery, so learn to live with it!!
Besides, it's a myth that all women are only looking for men with horse cocks. There are actually women out there that prefer smaller to average sized penises!!!

 

I was definitely the smallest guy in my phys ed changeroom/ showers in high school. Never got any bigger either.