Penis Envy

So how many of you guys can relate to having a somewhat small penis? I have always been dissapointed, but have accepted my 2 inch penis. Many years ago I would take my two boys and my very young cousin, swimming naked in our pond. My boys took after me in penis size, but my little cousin was very well endowed. Was it very wrong for me to be somewhat envious that his 3 1/2 inch, maybe 4 inch penis was far bigger than my own? Of course back in school, showering with the other boys, even though some were very large, most of the boys were about like me in penis size. I have recently read that having a 2 imch flaccid penis and a 5 inch erect penis was acually average for men. So how many of you guys deal with small penises and have you had the occasion of being naked with a little boy that put your own genitals to shame? Thanks

 

Just one more reason NOT to watch porn. Your satisfaction is all that counts what you see in porn is abnormally endowed men using drugs pumps and even camera angles to make you think its much bigger. Most are 5" to 5.5" but ranges from 4" to 6" are considered very normal. As a nudist all my life I learned we are all the same yet slightly different. I have seen a few young boys well-endowed but never felt any shame.

 

I have. Sex Therapist and advisor Emily Morse related an experience where she was at a seminar. In it men were asked to relate their issues with their penis size. She said the man that stood out claimed to have a much larger than average penis. He related he wished he were smaller. According to Emily the man said that a lot of women shy away and even refuse to continue when they see his size. So there is at least one man who does.

 

2 inches flaccid is below average for an adult man, but within the range that would include about 70 percent of men. Penis size, like most human attributes, follows a bell-shaped curve when graphed. The best current estimates for what is average length are just over 3.5" flaccid and 5.2" erect.

It is the flaccid size self-comparison to others that imprints on most of us at a fairly early age. We don't see erections other than our own very often, unless we seek them out as adults, and there's less variation in erect penis size than in flaccid penis size. Men with penises that are much smaller than peers' when flaccid, even if they are average or above when erect, tend to judge themselves harshly. We humans are competitive creatures, especially as boys comparing ourselves to other boys our age in our skills, capabilities, and physical attributes. Knowing that we're smaller than others, and being known by others for having a small penis, becomes increasingly disadvantageous in our teen years.

My own flaccid penis is the size and shape of a little sewing thimble, less than one inch in length, and no larger around than a small finger. I first noticed that it was significantly smaller than those of peers when I was 6 years old. I have two younger brothers, and I knew that my penis was much smaller than theirs, even when we were very young. I thought that mine would grow and that I would catch up, but I entered dating, sexual encounters, adulthood, and remain today with a penis that might look small on a toddler.

My ex-wife shared with me when we went nude on a clothing-optional beach for the first time that she was surprised and a little bit embarrassed that her husband had a noticeably smaller penis than any of the little boys running around did, and certainly much smaller than any of the other men on the beach. She knew I was small, but until seeing so many nude people in one place she hadn't realized just how small my penis is and how obvious it would be to others. That is until we encountered dozens of nude men and boys in one place at one time, and her husband had the smallest penis on the beach. I appreciated her honesty. I did have the smallest one.

I suppose I've always been a bit jealous of anyone hung average or above, and I probably share quite a few experiences in common with other men who have very small penises.

 

Being a nudist and raised by one I saw so many small to large skinny to fat you name it probably seen it. I never ever felt "I wish mine was..." For one exception cut but its not a big problem for me. I just accept it. I did remember sitting on the beach with my mom and a man with a rather large penis came walking by. I looked down at my then 3" at 8 and told my mom I hope mine doesn't get that BIG! We LOL and talked for a good 30 minutes. I felt happy and satisfied. I have a lot of fear for kids these days growing up seeing nothing but fake porn and thinking they are not normal. Hell, many adults have this same problem a very BIG misconception their penis should be much bigger.

 

I am happy with the size of mine. Just accepting that some men have larger penises, some of which I have to say I have admired. In a German sauna earlier this year and two men had the largest I have seen in many years, hoped their wives or girlfriends liked them and the men knew how to use them to give mutual pleasure.

 

I must confess that yes, I do get jealous of men more endowed than me. And it seems that most are. I'm between 1 and 2 inches when totally flaccid, closer to 1, and it's not always a great thought. I would enjoy a few more inches down there

 

Mine is just average but I do notice my wife can spot an endowed guy just by looking at their pants lol

 

Interesting lol

 

I am about 6.5” and I think around 5.5” around. My wife says I have a big penis but I always feel like it’s average. I wouldn’t want any more length because on occasion in certain positions I can hit her cervix and it hurts her. She says I fill her up as is but she has the capacity to take my penis and my fingers, my penis and my hand (wrapped around it in sort of a beak shape), or my penis and a comparably sized dildo. She enjoys it when we stretch her but she worries that she’ll be stretched out and loose and doesn’t let me do it often. Aaany way I wish I had more girth so that I could make her feel fuller without anything else needed.

 

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, small flaccid and perhaps 6" erect. We are nudists and swingers and have found regardless of your size, if you can't accept what you have then it will always be an issue. A friend of ours is abour 9" and is more than happy and proud to show it becuase amongst our circle of friends he's the largest...however he doesn't travel to nude resorts like Hedonism with us becauase he fears seeing a man with a larger penis and that would shatter his self-esteem.

Crazy as it sounds, accept who you are !!!

 

Right, I have a lot of fun with some smaller ones, and as for doing anal I only allow small and average ones to go in there, no way the big ones are going anyway near that hole.

 

I've always wondered why any woman who has a vagina would want to do anal? As a guy, I've never done anal, and find it uninviting to do otherwise, can't imagine it gets any better for a woman either, or is there something about it I'm just missing?

 

There is something you are missing

 

You'd said you wouldn't let a larger guy go there, never considered myself large (about 6.5", which is pretty average), but women have often told me I'm large after entry, as my head does get a good deal larger than the rest on getting erect. Just asking if you mean larger in length, or girth that you feel is a problem, and if I change my mind about anal am I going to make the lady upset. While I remain basically uninterested, I have to admit to being curious when I'm told I'm missing something.

 

It's not for everyone however the area is erogenous for many. We don't penetrate with my penis but we do orally and wy wife orgasms that way !!!

To each her own !!!

 

Yes, there is something you are missing. The feeling of having your asshole stretched open and pounded on is really hard to describe, it's just such an amazing feeling!! I have been with women who prefer it over vaginal, and can have huge orgasms from a good hard ass fucking. I, as a guy, can also have amazing hands free orgasms from getting fucked in the ass, but it has to be the right position and he has to be very well hung and very agressive.

 

Its the girth that can hurt (but in a nice way)