Pegging/strap on meta thread (merged)

The guy I'm dating mentioned to me that it is something he has wanted to try doing, but I'm still kind of uncomfortable with that whole region. I realized it has just been a matter of me being close minded and having this stigma about the association with an anus, but even with that in mind, it's hard to accept it. I really want to get to the point of feeling comfortable with it because I really want to make him happy and he's been more than accommodating for me. But my initial reaction is to be kind of grossed out because, in my life, the ass has always been the 'butt of jokes' and focal point of poo and farts, and those are 2 things I never want to associate with sex. I just don't know how to detach myself enough from that to be able to get enjoyment out of it.

 

My girlfriend bought a strapon to use with me and it is incredible.

 

I thought stretching the anus with several (6) fingers would cause some bleeding / internal damage even with the use of lubes?

 

what gets me is the 21,204 views 205 counting mine,but is this a big taboo subject,personally not for me ill be the quarterback not the reciever especially off a chick,and these guys who take it up the ass yes some may well be straight but are the majority bi? or just adding to their pleasure list:-?

 

I use butt type plugs & unusual objects on myself for pleasuring & curious to know how it would feel if another hguys penis was placed inside my as well.
I'm not gay but bi sexual curious - have been that way inclined since an early age - pre teens.

 

tried this recently with my girlfriend. she used one of her dildos, was much bigger than anything i had tried before so it took me a while to get it in but once i was nice and warmed up it was pretty magical. we will definitely be trying it again some time.

 

I can only get lucky if I find a girl to do that to me.

 

My wife uses her finger during blowjobs and its amazing

 

I've Fucked my girls ass so she could do mine If she wanted

 

It would need some preparation on my part...an enema or something perhaps, I would be far too self-conscious otherwise. I must admit that when pleasuring myself I have at time been known to stick a couple of fingers in my ass to stimulate the prostate, it feels awesome! If my girlfriend did that to me, I would be over the moon but it ain't gonna happen so I am not even going to go there!

 

My wife and I have been into strapon play for several years now...there is no feeling better than when she is in complete control over me...for all you ladys that want to do this to your manjust start with a finger or something small. If he enjoys it get a small strapon and tie him up face down ...let him know he doesn't have a choice...your taking his ass whether he wants you too or not. That's is the biggest turn on for me...knowing I don't have control

 

Any tips from the women out there that fuck their guys?

My boyfriend and I have been experimenting with me fucking him and we just got a new strapon. It's so hot when I get to bend him over and fuck his tight little ass. Hehe And he begs for it.

Anyways... Looking for tips for beginners. We've only tried doggy style which worked well, but I'm still adjusting and trying to learn how to control my new found body part would love to hear any advice.

 

I dress in sexy lingerie and my girlfriend fucks me. My only issue is I come so quickly. I wish I knew a way for her to fuck me and I last longer. Her talking and strapon, it's amazing. Just want to prolong my cumming.

 

So my wife has used a strap on with me in the past and she loved it. Now I want it and can't seem to get her into it. I want it bad sometimes. How do I get her to fuck me and her enjoy it again?

 

Tempt her with something she may like instead & then see if that works or just attach it to something that allows you to do it your way.

 

Hmm dunno. My wife usually quite happily fucks me with the strap on, but i dont push my luck and expect it too often. They need something they enjoy too to balance it out.

 

Its not like I want it everyday. I just want it every once in a while. I am happy to give her anything she wants sexually and she knows that. I just feel like we have lost the good sex we used to have.

 

So now It's just like a special treat you get when you either ask for it or if she goes & puts it on for you without you mentioning it ?

 

Nope its like i never get it even when I ask. She says maybe next time but that never comes. Been difficult to just have plain old sex too.

 

Is she going thru menopause like my wife is now?
And your sex life has decreased because of it for that reason or another.
Maybe she thinks that if she was to have sex with you again, you'd be wanting to be pegged by her & she doesn't want that in her activities with you anymore?? Maybe use a dildo mounted to something so you can do it yourself. instead.