Pegging/strap on meta thread (merged)

i dont dont go for this opionion. i rekon some times people just need a nice push. imagine if being a partner in a relationship u never gave any pushes about anything. i think thats stupid.

this may sound bad, but i kinda in a nice way told my gf to loose a little weight. i did it in the nicest way. so now she has gone running all the time with her neighbour and she feels good. and she is looking sexy as. and im her boyfriend if i cant tell her somthing, than who can you know.
id be all for her giving me pushes. and i love it when she does. im making her push me do lots of stuff. i work out almost everyday. theres nothing wrong with giving ur other half a nice push.

 

My wife says that she likes to do things to me because she nows that I like it.

You should do this for him and not judge him or make him feel bad. You may like it. I have done things for a woman that had a stigma attached but I saw how much they liked it so I enjoyed doing it for them. In the end I now crave these things because I learned to like it and now fantasize about it.

AND be glad that you have a man who is secure enough in his sexuality to ask for you to do this. A person who is this secure probably does not have hangups and will do whatever you want done to you without judging you. Secret to a happy relationship.

 

not doing stuff and satisfying your partner could be seen as selfish. why not extend yourself to the person u love so dearly.

girls that dont let their boyfriends fuck them in the ass are selfish...lol

 

Yeah, you were that way opinionated in a thread a while back. With a lack of respect for women like that, if I were your girlfriend I'd have kicked you out the door before you got your cock anywhere near me.

And just to clarify (not that it's any of your business) the sex I have with my boyfriend is the hottest wettest sex imaginable. So maybe keep the 'horny' supplements for yourself, or give them to your girlfriend when you decide to wee and poo all over her. (You said you were going to try it- So have fun.)

If you don't know what I'm talking about, have a look back through some old threads where you decided to tell me that it's MY problem if I'm not horny enough to let a man do whatever he wants with MY body.

If your girlfriend isn't turned on enough for a good shag (up the pussy or up the ass- whatever), then it's YOUR problem- Not hers! Likewise, if I'm not hot and wet enough for my boyfriend then he quite frankly didn't do a good enough job of turning me on. It's not a girls job to provide you with sex.

If I ever decide to experiment with that aspect of sex, it'll be with a man who has enough respect for me to appreciate how delicate the subject is, and he'll have respects for my feelings and body too. There is no way on Earth I'd trust anybody with the mentality of "girls that dont let their boyfriends fuck them in the ass are selfish" anywhere near that part of my body.

 

lol

i respect woman that deserve to be respected. i dont think any guy can honestly respect a slut.

i wouldnt like a girl that was so reserved.
in a relationship its not about what u want. thats selfish. in a relationship u give a little u get a little. u need to go 50/50 on everything.

and not body needs horny pills, unless there somthing wrong with u. but being extra extra horny and into fucking, and getting extra strong orgasms is pretty good.

 

he will be wanting to suck some guys cock next.. then what are you going to do?

 

Plastic surgery

 

theres nothing wrong with it.
people only dont do it cause of the 'socal expectations'
somthing that feels good in ur but cause of your prostate that your woman is doing to u isnt gay.
and anyway charlie sheen likes it, so who cares.
iv never thought a gay thought.

 

All women deserve respect. I can see why you might lose respect for a girl if she starts sleeping with your best mate, but regarding sexuality- Everyone deserves respect. Even the busiest drunkest prostitute deserves respect. It works for men too, until someone does something to hurt someone or dishevel humanity- Respect is for us all.

You don't think any guy can honestly respect a slut? What's that got to do with anything? Or are you being personal? Because I really don't get it..

Because a girl has one (or more) thing(s) on her list that she won't do, it doesn't make her reserved. That's like saying a girl is prudish or frigid, just because she has no desire to engage in anal sex. A girl could be the hottest, dirtiest siren in the bedroom and not want to have anal sex. There are other things, maybe you need some more experience if you think anal sex is where it's at and without it sex would be too reserved.

I've been with my boyfriend for five years, we're planning to get married and he's never once hounded me for anal sex. He knows it's something I won't do, and he respects that. If he felt otherwise, we wouldn't be where we are today. He'd have been out the door because there'd be no trust, no respect, a huge lack of respect for boundaries and quite possibly a damaged sense of love too.

You couldn't be more right when you say "in a relationship it's not about what you want.." Take your own advice! The 50/50 thing is a load of rubbish. 50/50 is "Okay, she sucked my cock so it's only fair that I lick her pussy.." NOT "Well you don't want my cock up your ass but I'm half of this relationship so roll over now so I can violate and abuse your body.."

If you do ever manage to persuade a girl to have anal sex with you but you know she doesn't want it, would you still feel comfortable with her under you knowing she feels violated, sore and upset?

Does the same argument work for regular (male/female) intercourse? You meet a girl, she doesn't want intercourse with you (maybe because she doesn't know you well enough, or maybe because she's waiting until her wedding night- Whatever) but you're opinionated in that sense to hound her enough to do it anyway?

Anal sex doesn't appeal to everyone. You probably think that anal sex is something that all gay men take part in- Where actually some do, some don't. It's a preference (a deep one), the will to do it or to try it has no reflect on how horny a person is and it's normal to both do it and not to.

Nobody ever needs horny supplement pills, EVER. If someone isn't horny, there's nothing wrong with them. Our hormones work in their own ways and at their own times. Even if someone is asexual, there's nothing wrong with that. And yes, being super horny and enjoying surprisingly strong orgasms is incredibly good- Even I can vouch for that one. (That's something that shocks you, right?) But those that have gentle romantic loving sex even as little as once a month (or less) may still be in a quality trusting relationship with a deeply satisfying sex life.

 

I do that to my bf sometimes. We're both bi so he does like guys too but that doesn't mean all guys are gay/bi if they like that. It just turns me on to do that and get dominant with him.

 

have u ever done it? no from what youve posted you havent. so that means u dont know if it feels good. so that means ur baseing your decision on a more moral social context type of way.

u have to try things to know.
it can take a little getting used to, but anal shouldnt hurt, its a very very intimate dirty pleasure a couple can share, that can take a relationship to new heights.
just knowing ur fucking ur girlfriend in the ass sends so much trust and devotion.


if i conned a girl into anal, i would ofcourse take it slow, use heaps of lube, if shes not into it, try again another time. its somthing u wouldnt do until ur more inloved with the person.

ever heard of the term "birthday sex" , well yeah, all guys expect anal on their birthday at minimum.
i dont know where ur living at.

 

what he really means is...

he wants you to bring over a bi-girlfriend

 

and saying nobody ever needs horny pills is stupid.
thats like saying nobody needs testosterone replacement therapy when there testosterone is so low their growing boobs and shit.
horny pills are simply natures herbs which were put here on the earth for the us animals to discover and benefit.
anyone not benefiting from them is missing out.

ur only young once, and having sick hot horny sex only happens when ur youing.

 

A moral social context? What does that mean, exactly? And what's social about sex? I don't want to do it because I don't find it appealing, and because it isn't something I ever want to do. How is that a moral social reason? And what would a moral social reason be? I never said anal sex was wrong, I never even said that other people shouldn't do it.

Where the hell did you get that idea about birthday sex from?! Wow. Really. Birthday sex is just a shag on your birthday. It's not some super special day for a guy where he gets to sexually do as he pleases. Someones been listening to Jeremih, haven't they? It's about a girl.

How would you 'con' a girl into anal? With your wise words?

Hahaha. Firstly, don't ever imply that I am stupid. Ever. There are a lot of things that come to mind that I could say to you but I just don't. Secondly, are you confused with hormone replacement? Hormone replacement is something prescribed to women when they no longer produce hormones. It may be prescribed for men as an artificial testosterone when they too reach male menopause. The 'horny pills' you speak about are aphrodisiacs. They increase blood flow to your cock or pussy and increase libido. It's a bunch of herbs, not hormone replacements that you find in HRT! Garlic, honey, ginseng, avocado and asparagus are all aphrodisiacs. Some poeple believe that aphrodisiacs are psychological. Don't expect miracles. If you don't want sex, gulping down quick herbal tablet won't suddenly transform you into a raging bull.

Horny sex doesn't only happen when you're young. Why does that ever have to be true? Is that why you're in such a huff to get it all done now, because you think that by 30 you won't be able to do it? I don't know about you, but I'll be having slut sex until the day I die.

Lastly- I'm calling it quits. Are you twenty? I think you're immature for your age. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, but it makes sense since I've always gone for older men. I can give you some advice- Don't ever try and con a girl into anal sex. She might hate you for it. Instead, show her a bit of respect and if she learns to trust you enough in time you might be lucky enough to get what you want. Who knows? Maybe you won't, maybe she'll be like me and won't ever try it. And if anal sex is all you're after and you need it as a requirement for an intimate relationship- Then move on. It'll only be your loss, not hers. Anal doesn't equal dirty hot intimate sex. If you can't have slut sex without it then you're really missing out. Get experimenting.

 

dont even talk to me about the effectivness of drugs and medecines. i know what im talking about.

and actually tribulos a herb in a potent form form the bodybulding shop makes u a angry horny raging bull.
the fruits and and other things like bannas are called aprodisacs, but those dont work, most of them come from ancient people thinking they looked like genitals. the closest one is oysters, and thats cause it has hi zinc, which supports sperm and hormone production.
the herbs tribulous and a few others activly work to naturally increase testosterone production a good amount.

u seem to be getting really upset about this anal sex stuff, which leads me to beleive you have some underlying issues. get over it.

u sound like a really highly strung girl that aint giving any anal sex to ur boyfriend. lol even on his birthday, poor guy.
birthday sex is special, in the but. he can have it the puss any other day...

i wouldnt push a new girlfriend into doing anal straight away , ofcourse i woud give it time, but eventually i would expect to do it. not all the time, just now and again.
now i dont think im being unreasonable at all.
im used to and like relationships where we are so open, we can do anything to each other, doesnt matter what. no limitaations or anxieties.

 

Don't talk to you about drugs and medicines because you know what you're talking about? That was a ballsy thing to say when you have no idea on my background- Who I am, the family I come from and the job I might do for a living. Are you a doctor?

It's called Tribulus and it's a con. Exercising boosts more testosterone than natural supplements ever will. Nothing you can buy from a health food shop will ever turn you into a raging bull. Tribulus doesn't work, it's centuries old and was used in Asia as an aid for low libido. In modern times they realised that the effects weren't significant so marketed it at those who partake in sports. Studies show it has no effect what so ever. It was supposedly proven to be effective by studies in countries which were proven not even to have done them right.

I never said aphrodisiacs work, I actually said they were psychological. Meaning it's all in the head! Just like Tribulus. The only way foods like oysters increase a sex drive is that they're high in vitamins and nutrients that improve health, and if you are healthy then you should have increased libido.

I'm highly strung?! Haha, nice joke. You're full of attacks today! Sex doesn't have to take place in the ass or the pussy. Like I said- experiment. There are things to be discovered in the bedroom that you've never even dreamt of. If you think anal is where it's at, then you're so wrong. It gets hotter, wetter and dirtier elsewhere.

I'm out man. Argue alone if you want to carry on, we just have different opinions.

 

lol i know u dont know much about medeices cause of your previous post.
and yeah as a matter of fact i know alot about alot of different drugs, and herbs and stuff. and as a matter of fact i have experience with alot of them too.

and just for your information tribulous does indeed work very well.
have u tried it? obviously not.

i dont want to argue either.
just in ur own words tell me why anal is such an off limits thing? u seem to be sooo interested in any other "hotter, wetter and dirtier sex", so why no anal?
i mean u havent tried it?
just like u havent tried tribulous.
yet you beleive they are both bad ? lol hahaha
no sorry seriously i shouldnt make fun of u.
u must have some sort of disease.

 

my bf wants it too- s long as he picks it out himself! It'll be a turn-on for us BOTH. so why not?

 

Are there many straight guys that would allow their girlfriend/wife etc to put a dildo up their butt assuming she used plenty of lube?

 

If this is something that would really turn her on then yes, after all I do her in the ass so it's only fair. I've had her finger in there so I guess we could work up to it if she really wanted to.

It's something to share with your partner, this does not make you gay (if this is the sort of thing you are looking for)

I once had a mate saying anal sex (doing it to a woman) is wrong, he said if you can do it to a woman you can do it to a man. I said to him then if you can kiss your wife then you can kiss a man (he didn't like that to much lol)

I'm not attracted to men, but anal play with a woman is fine