Girls, i am new to pegging my husband into submission and did it to him the first time the other night and was wondering if this is what happens with your guy when he is pegged. I have read that pegging stimulates the prostate but is it normal for him to completely unload his entire prostate on my sheets while I am behind him ringing his bell. Also, afterwards is it normal for his asshole to get so puffy that it looks like he has a small little pussy back there or am I just doing something wrong. -Jen
Hello Jen, Yes, this happened to my husband once when I was fucking him with a strap on. Typically he would jerk himself off towards the end of the session. Once, after I had been fucking him for some time, I told him to go ahead and jerk off. He was a little sheepish, and shook his head, no. When he rolled over, there was quite a puddle of his cum on the sheets. His orgasms from that sort of stimulation have always been pretty intense. I haven't noticed his asshole getting puffy from that. Does he enjoy it?
Whenever I play, mine always gets the "Puffy". It's actually a positive sign of stimulation to that area. It's caused by an increase of blood flow. And I also get extremely wet from prostate stimulation. Along with huge orgasms! I would simply ask him if he enjoyed it. And if he would want to do it again, if the right moods cum into play in the future. The signs his body showed are positive. But how it felt to him and his mental aspect are what counts.
[QUOTE=" i am new to pegging my husband into submission -Jen[/QUOTE] Very interesting lead in. Did he request this, or was it initiated by you? Are you looking for a form of "role reversal" in your relationship? My husband begged me to do this to him for months. I finally agreed to it, and he loved it.
so, since I am the assertive one of us two, I initiated this. I was tired of him always being the 'girl' of our relationship so I wanted to take it to the next level to let him feel what it would be like to really be the 'girl' in the relationship by pegging him. I think that he did like it because after whining about his butt being sore so I would cuddle and hold him afterwards, he admitted that even though it did hurt somewhat, he was turned on by it. Btw he couldn't stop apologizing for making such a big mess on the sheets. I dont know how else to say it without sounding like a mean bitch but I also genuinely feel that he likes me being the one in total control of him which is a turn on for him. He even agreed to let this become somewhat of a regular event for us.
That's wonderful! Good job taking control, and at the same time finding a way to improve your relationship for the future. Don't know unless you try. Best of luck!
Interesting. Is he still interested in fucking you at all? That was never my husbands favorite activity, when we were dating, or after we were married. There were some notable exceptions involving anal and regular intercourse. At some point, I stopped receiving anal, then regular intercourse. Once the strap on was introduced, he stopped requesting the other two holes, and was extremely happy being the girl. I would still suck his cock on occasion, but his preference was me fucking him, and for him to jerk off to climax. I'll add that he is bisexual, and I'm pretty sure he is a "bottom" for men. Is you husband bi or curious, as they say?
My wife complained abut my cum getting all over , even with a towel under me, so she came up with a new idea. She made me change position, on my shoulderswith my back against the headboard.She could fuck my ass and make me cum on my face(which she loves to do)She is pretty good at getting it right in my mouth. I would never complain for fear it would all stop. sS
hell yes it does turn me on especially since I am the one in control of him while fucking his boy pussy and as a plus my strap on is one that will get me off as well when I am ringing his bell. I still do let him fuck me but on my terms only. To answer Miss Margaret's question, no he isn't bi-curious but is the type of guy that is really more girly than most guys. The kind who is shy, sensitive, needs to have someone take that lead and make him feel like he is protected.
How "girly is he?" Does he wear panties for these sessions? My husband loved wearing my undies, and sometimes more, while I was fucking him.
Sounds like a prolapse to me. Maybe this isn't his first experience having something in his ass. You may think you're the initiator but if he's more than receptive to the idea, he may have had some previous intrusions.
I'm a guy that absolutely loves getting pegged by my girlfriend. Heres my take on this subject... Some years ago in my mid 30s I had an encounter with another guy. We did everything. I mean everything. I never wanted to do it again. I wanted to know if I could feel an attraction to another guy. I do not. No attraction to other men at all. Despite the lack of attraction, I enjoyed being the "bottom". It was amazing. My current gf and I started talking about toys. We've been a thing for just over a year. I told her about that experience, and she asked if I wanted her to use her toys on me. That started the strap on conversations. She has done me probably 10 times now in the last week. I love it. I can finish completely this way. I can also have multiple orgasms, which she found out during our second session, when she didn't stop after I finished. She loves it, and so do I. It feels amazing. We mix it right in with our "normal" activities.
You might try a brief break mid-sex. Before you really get going pull out, add more lube, do a few long and deep thrusts to move the lube around. Then show him and his ass who is boss . Take him girl! This method works very well for me and my 8 inch dildo, if I dont re lube. I can get very sore from the pounding
