So, my wife and I have experimented with me recieving anal play before. Not much, but a little. I have played with anal penetration alone as well. I enjoy the stimulation and all, even though I don't really think of myself as a bottom. Last night was my first time being "pegged", largely at my wife's insistence. After some making out and warm up I got on top in "cowgirl"(boy?) position and lowered my self on. Kinda awkward my first time, gotta admit. Two surprises for the night. One, we started with a more firm curved toy in the harness (Tantus Curve). Though nice, at least in this position or perhaps due to my awkwardness, the firmness was not working for me. We switched out for a larger, but more forgiving toy (Vixskin Bandit). I was surprised I was able to handle the size as well as I did. Two, OMG!!! My wife was turned on. She was over the top excited at the idea of fucking me, and it escalated from there. It is extremely rare for her to orgasm more than 1x/night, but she came twice during this. Wow! She is definitely a fan. I enjoyed myself. Not sure if I could come from just the anal, but I did like it. I ended up riding enthusiastically and stroking myself. I came on her stomach and breasts, with a good bit firing right over her shoulder. I collapsed on her and we rested a little bit. The as I climbed off I wasn't sure if that "cock" was ever going to end. It seemed like it was going to keep sliding out forever. I not gonna make too much of my first time. I did like it. Just wasn't quite there for me on the same level as me doing the fucking. Maybe I will grow into it. Like I said though, I did enjoy it. Based on how much my wife liked it, I think we are going to be doing it again. Maybe a lot. Tonight though, it's her turn. It's hardly the first time, but tonight I am gonna take her sexy ass.
I just started using a dildo for prostate stimulation. I sent my wife a couple articles I found online. She’s very conservative in the sack and I know she’d think badly of it so I’m trying to ease her into it. I’d definitely let her peg me! The dildo feels so amazing I’ve actually questioned my sexuality a couple times. lol It’s awesome that your wife was cool with it and you both enjoyed it.
That's great to hear. My wife enjoys pegging me as she really gets into the role reversal and she too orgasms more than once while working my ass over.
Little update. Friday night we played with the strap on again. This time I bent over the bed while she stood behind me and took my ass. She started slow and easy, but quickly turned up the power and the speed. To put it blunty, she fucked the shit out of me! Wow! Just, wow! Nothing like the first time where I set the pace and controlled the action. It took her quite a while to build to orgasm this time. She said that standing and thrusting made it more difficult to let go and lean in to the pleasure of it. For me the feeling was really nice. I could really get lost in pleasure as she thrust into me. I would really feel the build up and once or twice I thought I might even be able to cum, but then it would ebb a bit. After about 20 min or so of her pounding me, I had to switch it up. She laid down on the bed and I slid into her beneath the harness. Her "cock" swinging back and forth with thrusting was pretty hot and I was firing my cum into her in no time. I kept rolling against her, putting pressure on her clit. She came again right on my heels. So... even though I still think I'm mostly a top I certainly do like getting fucked. I like it alot! For those of you with more experience. Does it take time to be able to cum from this? Is it a learned/getting used to it kinda thing or it is black and white? You either cum from anal or you don't?
First off, Congrats on you and your wife exploring what a small percentage of couples experience to enhance their sex life. It does take me time to cum, I've yet to experience a prostate orgasm but I do enjoy allowing her to plow me like a man while on all fours. She totally gets into it and seems to really fuck the shit out of me with complete enjoyment. It's not until I roll over on my back at the side of the bed so she can stroke me while fucking me that I manage to shoot my load. It's all good!
Thanks all for the words of encouragement. FWIW, I'm getting pretty good at deep throating her "cock". God I can't wait to try this for "real". Still, ... "baby steps"
My wife REALLY loves to peg me. She wants to do it daily. I enjoy it immensely, of course. The one big change I've noticed in myself, after a few years of her pegging, and us sharing a 2nd guy here and there....is, I have become a terrible top. When I fuck her, I cum in just a couple minutes. 4 years ago, I could go for at least 15 minutes. She doesnt mind, because I always get her off, but that's usually orally. Has anyone else noticed that being a bottom has diminished your stamina as a top?
That's all great!! Congratulations to you both! Nice to have that trust in each other, and not be judgmental about the fun you're having together. Sooooo many want to do it, but know their partner will look at them differently, and/or end their loving relationship. It's a great way to broaden your sex lives, and feel that amazing role reversal. It's simply amazing.
Yes, it has for me as well. It's worked out just fine for my wife and I though. She can only orgasm through oral while I'm on top (69) while she's giving me oral and dildoing my ass. It's worked out for her and I. However, Tom does enjoy sucking me for 30-40 minutes and it's difficult for me to last 15-20 minutes any more.
It's all about the protate orgasm, for me. What started as prostate therapy, turned into fun time for my wife. At least once a month, my wife would give me a prostate massage with a dildo, thoroughly draining me. She became efficient at making me cum. In making me cum, the theraputic aspect soon turned into how intense she could make it, while accomplishing the same goals. I couldn't hide my enjoyment and pleasure, as I would have earth shattering orgasms. There were bonus pleasures for her too. I would , and still do, allow her to do anything she wants to me. I would take huge self facials and would almost always get a mouth of my cum. I thought it felt so good, I would let her do anything she wanted to me, or do anything she wanted me to do, which led to my bi experiences. After all, If it wasn't fun for her too, she wouldn't do it.
I got rid of the dildo I bought. I think I liked it to much and would continue to think about it daily. I did get one prostate orgasm but wasn’t able to get it a second time. I did end up getting a anal plug and enjoy using it when I masturbate.
First time I was pegged, was during a period where I wasn't getting enough cock up my tight ass (or enough tight male tail to fuck!) so it ended up that I overheard that a middle-aged African-American woman in my office loved pegging her husband, so I figured, what the hell, I'll talk to her, and see what transpires. Fast forward to the next day, Friday, when it was after hours, and everyone had cleared out, rushing to start a three-day weekend. I was bent over my desk, my suit pants and boxers down around my shoes, getting my as FUCKED....and I DO mean FUCKED by this hot black businesswoman equipped with a nine-inch strapon! My huge cock was humping the desk, the thick lube oozing down the side; she also spanked my little white rump with a bare hand, REALLY making me feel it! She was VERY vocal, too, making it all the hotter! Finally, my overworked prostate could take no more, and I shot such a huge load, that my thick, white-collar jizz actually hit the window on the other side of the desk, before fucking up the papers I'd left on the top! Fuck! What a FUCK! This went on for about a year, every Friday, after hours, until she left for another company (I would have PAID to have seen her strapon fuck her husband's ass....and then MAYBE, he'd want to feel the REAL thing up his tight butt! Regards, John
....maybe THAT'S why I got SPANKED (by both men and women) so many times, back in the day....it was no less than a NAUGHTY (adult) boy deserved!!! (ha-ha!) Regards, John
My girlfriend has pegged me a few times. Its great. I love the role reversal aspect. She is now fucking me. Im in all those positions bending over and opening my legs for her. Amazing feeling
I was pegged by several GFs and all loved pegging me and I loved being pegged. Wish one of them were still with me today...