Peeves in the gay community

I love helping people and when someone tells me they're questioning and they want advice, I'm all for it. But I feel like oftentimes it's just straight girls who have been wronged by men too many times. My girlfriend has a co-worker who asked her if she would take her around the gay area here and help her meet a girl because she wants to try being with a woman. So she agreed and we planned to take her out on the town next week.

She's been texting her every day so eager to meet someone, and really impatient. Today she texts her and basically asks if she can have a threesome with us. And it immediately got really weird. This girl is not either of our type and we don't do threesomes. I don't like that the image of lesbians is that they all sleep with their friends. A lot of us are committed couples. I totally trust my girlfriend but I don't like some random girl asking her for sex as an experiment.

 

That's true. I try to do good for my community and educate people the best I can. But people often say they want advice when they really just want to ask intrusive questions about my sex life. My girlfriend did tell her straight up that we don't do that, but we'll have to see if she backs off or not.

Technically this whole situation could be considered sexual harassment, especially if this woman makes a move on my girlfriend. I'm not worried she'll cheat, but I don't like the idea of some desperate woman throwing herself at her.

 

You certainly have more trust than me than. I'm too jealous; I don't trust my wife around pretty girls lol

 

I hate to be mean, but she's not pretty to either of us. Nothing has been mentioned about it since, so I guess the woman was pretty embarrassed about it. I trust my girlfriend, but that doesn't mean someone can't catch her off guard and violate her in some way. It wouldn't be her fault but I would be upset for her.

Besides, we aren't really party people so if she disappeared to go cheat, I would know lol she specifically told the woman if we were to show her the gay community, we'd be there together. She would never go out with another woman alone. I guess that sounds silly, but it's not by my urging. I've told her she can go out without me, but we just enjoy things more if we're together lol