I think you are absolutely right, and that definitely is a pitfall of reading people online without knowing anything about them. You had been told your reads could be damaging, and you had that experience with giving an unsavoury reading to a 9 year old. You sensed the pain I am currently enduring, so decided not to take the chance on causing further damage to me, so erased my reading, unaware that I had already read it. But had you known a bit about me before the reading, I feel sure you would have treated the reading very differently. I would just tread a bit more carefully in future when reading people online. Make sure they are both old enough, and, that they are in the right frame of mind to cope with a potentially traumatising read. I have tried to recall as much of the original read as possible so I can write it down and analyse it a bit more... I feel very humbled at the kind words and feelings shown towards me. Thank you, it is very much appreciated, and I am very touched. I had been holding back tears for a while today, but couldn't contain them any more due to your kind words. lol I am very glad to have you as a friend too. *hugs*
Technical question. Human lives come in three varieties, male, female, and parent. That is, those things represent the sum of our biological diversity within the species so to speak. It is most common then for all three to be represented to oneself at some point, meaning it is likely you will have at least once been male, at least once been female, and at least once a parent. Beyond that we may exhibit a preference for one aspect or another and seek to replicate experiences. You don't care about current gender but do you recognize past life gender and do you think that may be relevant?
Invisible Soul - You have a copy of the post and he doesn't. Maybe you and Rick could decide if it should be re-posted. Just a thought. Rick - I had a little insight to part of my past life read. I'm going to add it my original response in this thread. It will show how some of what you pick up may not always be literal. I hope both of you work something out about Invisible Soul's read that leaves you both feeling better. :sunny:
When I do a read I am trained now to only use the name given on the computer. But it probably is important to know if I am dealing with a male or female. I just have never asked for that info. The less I know the better. It might sway my read to know if the person is a male or female. It would seam that copying the past the gender might be important.
Aerianne: If you mean a copy of Rick's original read of me that was erased, then no, I do not possess a copy of that. Had I known he was going to remove it, I would have copied it, but I didn't so... I do possess a copy of my original reply to it (which was never posted on the live messageboard), but not of Rick's pre-erasal read itself. If Rick still possesses that read, and wishes to repost it, then I am more than happy for him to do so. Though if he'd rather send me it in a PM, I'd be happy with that too. I feel aware that Rick felt very drained by my read, so I can wait for him to recupurate a bit before revisiting that read if he feels the need to do that. thedope: I think the fact that Rick doesn't need or care about someone's gender when he reads them is a good thing. I have a belief that if reincarnation is true, that everyone will go through the full gamut of life's experiences, (or most of them, at least) including all the pain and suffering that goes with it. Though perhaps some of us endure that more than others. I also very much doubt that any of us were the one gender in every incarnation, even if we all have a "primary" gender that we have been in the majority of our past lives. I believe we have all been male or female at least once during past lives, and have all at some point, also been species other than human too. And so our current gender has no (or shouldn't have any) bearing on that aspect of a past life. I am also very happy where we are now at. Although I still do apologise if I made you sad or upset in anyway with the points I raised earlier. I did not intend for that to happen.
I do not a copy but I have it in my head. It will not be exact but the details will be there, but after today it will start to fade for the read.
In that case, I would like all the details, or at least all the details you can remember, about that read. Whether you post them here, or send them in a PM, is fine, I don't mind either way. If you feel you need more time before addressing my views and points about the read, then that's perfectly okay. I already feel I've taken up so much of your time lately, when you could have moved onto someone else... I am sorry about that.
Oh man, that 9 year old. That kind of stuff can get really tricky online. There's really no way to know how old someone actually is if they don't want to say it. : ( I'm 19, so I think I'm pretty safe. I can handle whatever you throw at me.
Ok I will edit the read when I get time. And when you post your reply more will pop in my mind. Thank you Yes the 9 yr old was scary for me.
Ok Invisible Soul I posted some but I am slowly forgetting. Please post your reply and I will remember more. Thanks
Posted some where? I can't see anything... I'll try and recall everything I can about the read, but I know I've forgotten a small amount of specifics... Near the start of the read, or maybe right at the start of it, you mentioned the year 1700. You said you saw a log cabin and someone sleeping. Then mentioned a ball and a "glass sleeper". (which I took to be a typo for glass slipper... lol) I also recall you mentioning a singer's name, though I can't remember what it was... it may have been "something" Boone.... Next thing I remember, you said saw someone sleeping and being disturbed a dream. Then seeing a woman's face down in a car's dashboard... I remember you heard the name Samantha, and heard someone saying "Sammy don't", or "Sammy stop". (I cant remember which it was, it might have even been "mummy stop", though Im not sure at all...) Next, you said the decade was either the 50's or 60's, then you said it was definitely one of them (though I forget now which), due to the layout of (or things placed on) the car's dashboard. You said you saw me as a woman with long dark brown hair, and that I was in a car, and that a man reached in with his arm and dragged me out. That I was then pushed into a cabin... I remember you saying something about him giving me water... and maybe something food related, though I'm not sure. Then you said he hit me or branded me with a poker. And that I managed to escape. Then you said you saw me in the car, and you felt bad because there was people watching me as I was driving and something about photographs being taken, and there was laughter as well... (I also remember you stating that you didn't know why I spent so much time driving alone at night) you said that the last image you saw was me dead in the driver's seat of the car with my face pressed up against the window (or dashboard). And that I hadn't made it through the night. At this point you said you heard the name Carol. (there was a surname too, but I can't remember it) I distinctly remember the last thing you said was that you could hear laughing as you were relating this stuff to me. I know I have missed some stuff out, and some of the parts I did remember, I forgot some specifics of. But the basics are more or less totally accurate. Oh, I just remembered, at one point during the read, you said you heard the name Bernice, and you also asked me if I had a problem with my ears, as you were being directed to that area... I hope I've been able to jog your memory about some of the details of my read.