I'm definitely passive in all aspects of my life except too. I am very agressive in my career and I am also very agressive at skiing.
I THINK i am a combination of the three. it completely depends on the situation and the importance i place on it.
IE since you know ill take your crap and your afraid of everyone else,so you take their crap with a smile, then let it all out on me even when im being nice
I like to think of my self as assertive. I know that wasnt listed, but we just discussed this in my Human Relations class, and this is what I was.
You know what someone called me once self reliant and resilient (sp) and she told me to remember this. Whoa you totally made me just remember it!!!
yeh right, i bet you let everyone in real life push you around all day and then you get on the internet to let it out on people who cant get anywhere near you or even look you in the eye.
im pretty passive, but when im after something i become aggressive. and being 6' tall weighing in at 250 and with fists as big as a human head, you tend to not get fucked with.
I'm aggressive and I'll admit, you couldn't pay me to keep my mouth shut. I was pushed around way too much before and I blew up one day and I've stayed that way.