Partners ex's cock size

She said he was bigger; didn't say he was better. Either way, I didn't care since he was old news. Or like I told her, "This is my pussy now..."

 

I liken it to buying a preowned vehicle. You know others have had it and driven it and used and abused it but when you get it you're gonna drive it the way you want and use it and make it yoiur own.

 

My wife definitely ISN'T shy when it comes to telling me all about her boyfriend's BIG dick. He's also her highschool sweetheart, and they've known and been fucking each other for 25+ years now.
And YES, the topic of his BIG dick does come up on a regular basis when her and I are in bed together, as it turns us both on.
She's always told me that YES, his dick is bigger than mine (which I can confirm, as I've seen it myself), but that he's not necessarily better in bed than me, it's just "different" with him.
I know and accept that he meets different needs and desires for her than what I provide, and I have absolutely no issues with their relationship.
Her relationship with him and the sex they have definitely enhances our sex life together

 

It's nice to know and hear from someone who's in that situation and has that attitude about it. I've been in situations similar over the years where I was faced with making decisions whether to be bitter and jealous about the past that I cannot change, or channel it in a more positive , constructive direction such as you've done and use it as a tool to enhance my experience. I admire your attitude and maturity in dealing with your particular situation and like myself, realize that if they didn't think I was better in some way they'd still be fucking someone else.

 

That's the thing though, my wife gets fucked by him nearly as often as I fuck her. I know for a fact that his dick is considerably BIGGER than mine. He's about 8.5" c and really THICK, compared to my 7"c and fairly thick. He obviously knows how to use it, and he's a really good fuck too, considering they've been fucking off and on for nearly 25 years now.
I've always had major cuckold fantasies/desires, and her relationship with him makes those fantasies/desires a REALITY.
That's not to say her and I don't have an active and kinky sex life, because we do. Some of the kinky things were into are diapers (I'm ABDL), golden showers (her pissing on my face and in my mouth), and her pegging me with OUR strap-on dildo to name a few.
I've never been jealous of their relationship or the sex they have, in fact, I'm the one who encouraged her to reconnect sexually with him.
When she's with him, she's sexually submissive to him, whereas with me, it's more of an even playing field, and she enjoys being sensually "dominant" with me when it comes to sex. She's NOT truly "dominant" with me, but based on a lot of things I enjoy in the bedroom, it's fair to say I'm in no way "sexually dominant" with her either

 

It sounds like she has her cake and eats it too.. Which is fine if that's what works for the both of you. Sometimes maintaining an alternative lifestyle is the glue that holds a couple together as they both get what they want and satisfies an additional desire they have that extends past their own bedroom;

 

According to my wife they are few and far in between. She liked her first, maybe the thrill of first time, and mental image. But after trying a few more, she was not impressed.

 

The only cock my wife has had since we married was our friend’s during our MFMs. She was curious as to his size, but I told her I had no idea. It had been years since I had seen him nude in the gym, but never erect. When we started our first MFM I was a little apprehensive that he may be much bigger than me. She got his pants off and he was definitely sporting wood. My concerns were alleviated when she pulled off his boxers and out sprung a nice cock…..probably 7” c vs my 6.5”, about the same girth as mine. Relieved he wasn’t hung like a horse. Although slightly bigger, he knew what he was doing. The Energizer Bunny! She thoroughly enjoyed that evening, and subsequent MFMs with him.
As far as her exes, I have no idea! I have a feeling that her first ex husband was probably the biggest just seeing him in person…..a well built dude. When I’d asked her who was her biggest she just said I was perfect. But she’d been with several men before me, so it left me wondering.

 

My wife frequently talks about how big and satisfying her boyfriend's cock is. He's also her highschool sweetheart, so in a sense, he's also an ex. I've seen it myself, so I know she's not exaggerating when she talks about how big it is. It's HUGE and very yummy looking.
She even talks about him and his BIG dick while we're having sex, and it turns us both on.
She gets super WET thinking about it, and I get even harder, and strive to perform better, as sometimes I feel as if I'm being compared to him.

 

I'm not sure I want to know about my wife's exes cock size but it's nice to know what she's had and been used to. The one or ones she's had that were bigger than mine are not really my business and I can't do anything to change that, just like the women I've been with she can't change or do anything about as they're in the past. If we wanted to be with them we would be.

 

No matter what your size is nearly everyone agrees that we would all like an extra couple of inches! What I can confirm is that guys with really big dicks, say 8"+ are very popular in the game of finding sexual partners. However there is also a huge number of women who pay no intention to, size down there, when searching for a husband and there are a variety of other reasons for prospective wives in deciding on who they finally marry. (thank goodness for that)

 

Me too.
Some women would react positively and enthusiastic, while others would say no.
My Wife was a Virgin, so I let her get on top . It took awhile, but she got used to it in time.

 

Given my wife’s voracious appetite for black men, I have had the distinct pleasure of watching her get pleasured by some exquisite cocks over the years during her play time I was allowed to observe. Her number is well over 300 with well over 200 of those being BBC’s. I saw some huge ones with my own eyes up close and even took part in measuring some in the 11 inch range, but as proven by video which she produced, her most massive one she devoured was 13 inches long exactly, and measuring 7 and a half inches around. A truly massive and beautiful specimen.

 

I have posted before that my wife fwb fb and other partners have consistently said that they love huge cocks. I am average size but fortunately having been with countless women over the years to this day I have not been rebuffed and maintain regular activity with them. The consistent opinion seems to be that they enjoy the size but often not the personality. They have found that the better lovers are those with average size cocks that eat their pussy well, fuck well and are kind and loving. The big cock guys are more detached so they have to fend for themselves to enjoy the moment. That said they all love the big ones!

 

Early on, before we got married, she told me her ex was smaller and shorter. I'm still not sure whether she liked his or mine better but since he was a close friend, it was information that I wasn't interested in hearing. No matter now.....

 

In the 1980's we had a FWB that had a very large cock, most women could not take it, very unfortunate for him. My wife however liked his size. After he thouroghly fucked her, i went inside her very wet pussy, she said she couldn't feel me...

 

:-(

 

My current wife described her last fwb's cock as looking as big as Randy Spears' cock.