Parents Vs Their Childrens Choice

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Didi, Sep 15, 2015.

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Why parents often dislike their kids' boy/girl-friends? And vice versa when UR sceptical about your

  1. Parents are jealous and envious of their children happiness

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  2. Dads & moms have fear of free, relaxed teens, and you lov'em just the other way round

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  3. Everything you do is to make your parents mad and rampant

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  4. Neither this nor that - give your variant

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  1. Didi

    Didi Members

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    Have you ever noticed, my good friends, that our parents - most of them - are somehow weird about our friends? If your boyfriend is a nerd and by all the criteria a loser they would praise him to the high heaven. Or taken such a situation: your friend is witty, slim, sociable, easygoing; but your parents grow inconceivably suspicious of him: Нe is inexplicably too courteous- apparently he wants to take advantage of our daughter and flee then...
     
  2. sexologystudent

    sexologystudent Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I have kids that date and so far, I haven't been impressed by the people they have brought home.
    My kids are smarter and more driven than the GF/BF...so far none have lasted, my kid figures out they cannot spend much time with someone who is lazy...
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    my parents liked most of my friends. except the ones that were pieces of shit. actually, they even liked some of them.
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    My folks liked my friends too. :) they had more worries with my other sisters than they did me so it wasn't really a problem. I was switched on and responsible. :)
     
  5. Didi

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    My father liked all my girlfriends. But my mom hated all of them. While I took a compromise position :artist:

    Нere is Xen'a (the left girl) Actually haven't seen her for a year - only texting and swapping songs. I don't know exactly if I love her but I'm definitely afraid of her - she'd used to torment me psychologically. Look in her eyes! If she find that I've posted her photo, she will bury me alive
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    Sorry, I have a bit strayed from the topic. So my mom and dad are not acquainted with Xen'a, but my sister Nelly knows her; and two years ago she had been pretty shocked by my choice. She doesn't like her
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    ^ i like your girlfriends too.
     
  7. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    I've been able to dislike the guy my mom was dating. Used all her phrases on her.
     
  8. silk896

    silk896 Member

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    My only daughter was bought up by a single parent - me. I had a couple (2) long term lesbian relationships in that time: my daughter loved the first, not so keen on the second, which was far shorter.
    She was basically a geek, and didn't start "dating" until her last year at school, and not really being a "hot chick" tended to attract like-minded boys, who were basically a bit shy and geeky like herself ; ergo, intrinsically harmless
    Since then, she won a scholarship to study in Perth at 18 and has lived there pretty much ever since, so I had very little say in her choice of boyfriend: and from what I hear, she "blossomed in her 2nd year uni, when in her own words, discovered sex .....BIG TIME!!!. - So really, I had little input into her social life.
    she's now 26, fully qualified as a vet and married to the nicest guy you could imagine.
     
  9. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    I had a blast with my daughters teen boyfriends...they were so nervous and I was so...intense. :devil:

    She wanted to kill me.
    I was having too much fun
     

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