Parents support to masturbate

We've got two boys, my wife and I have always encouraged them to masturbate, discuss it openly and anything they wish to discuss.
It's not everyone that wants to know about it so keep it private but its all good to do..
We have great sex discussions at the dinner table and they are both great boys..

 

My parents were born on the 30's. Sex was NEVER discussed. When it was time for "the talk" I was way too young (around 8?) and the talk consisted of a cheesy book with crayon drawings so kids could relate to it. I was left with the impression that guys went pee in a girl's butt and that's how babies were made. Then in an overly strict and religious private Christian school, we got the talk in 5th grade. Sex of any kind was a sin unless you were married, and then it could only be PIV in the missionary position for procreation. No mention of enjoyment. I discovered masturbation when I was around 13. I gave up organized religion at Catholic High School and went to a public High School for my senior year. It was a great year - first real girlfriend, first love, first blowjob, first sex. When I met my wife and we had our three kids, I swore to myself that nothing would be off limits. I had the talk with them several times at different points of understanding and I was straight with them. Sex is good if you're in a relationship and you're careful. I even told them how I had a vasectomy so their mother and I could have sex whenever we (she) wanted to without fear of pregnancy. I explained masturbation as both a learning tool for themselves and future partners. I think they took it well. There was nothing negative said about sex. The door was always left open for them to come to me and ask any question they had and I swore nothing but an honest, non-judgmental answer. No one has asked anything My kids are now 23, and twins that are 21. They're all still virgins, and by their choice. I am very proud of them.

 

My parents never talked about it either. So everything was on my own

 

My parents never seemed to have a problem with masturbation. I know they were aware all of us were doing it when we were teens and encouraged us to get the poison out. I think they preferred it to their daughters getting all worked up and getting pregnant, or getting someone else preg in my brother's case.

 

My parents never talked about it or encouraged it, but I don't know how they could have not known I was jacking off in that bedroom constantly.

 

I suspect they knew. Parents always seem to know. And if they knew they were cool to give you space and privacy. Now if you were snorting cocaine I suspect they would hardly look the other way.

 

My parents hardly said anything about it. But my mother sort of taught me by leaving the door a little open so I could spy on her, was not until I was an adult did she tell me it was deliberate. But I do wish she had the knowledge to talk to me about it.

My best friend on the other hand, had a knowledgeable mother who taught her, she in turn taught all her children.

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I have read articles about mothers demonstrating and showing their children how to masturbate. In the article she showed her daughter how to orgasm by hand and she showed her son how to jack off. I don’t know how true it was and I was skeptical. I am sure society would not condone this, but if it is done to help with problems in the home. Ok

 

My mom did not mind. She caught me a few times. We were just not open about it. When I my own house both her and my sister often saw me and were fine with it.

 

I don’t have kids but I have nephews that come to me with sexual related questions before their dad. The only thing I’ve said to them was to make sure they do it in private, and don’t take pictures or videos of their junk because it’s child porn if they do. Apparently that’s a common thing with teens and preteens nowadays.

 

Nothing of sex or nudity was ever discussed at home when I was growing up. In fact when I once asked my mother how I was made to confirm what my friends had told me. Her response was.... A bird shit on the fence post and the sun made you grow, and we found you. My father confirmed that story.
As far as our own kids. We never hid any info. If they asked a question we gave them an honest answer. Whatever they wanted to discuss was open to be talked about.

 

I should add that it was publicly known (by pretty much everyone) that both of them have been jacking off since they were 11. So obviously mom and dad didn’t have a problem with it.

 

We have multiple views on masturbation. Some folks feel its good while some folks discourage their children from masturbating. I found a really Great video here Ally | Earn money by sharing short links :: Is Masturbation Good For You? - YouTube by AsapSCIENCE that talks explicitly on the advantages and the disadvantages of masturbation.

 

Well my step-mom is very active and encourages me to jerk off. My step-sister has even helped me get off.

 

How did your stepsister help you get off? By giving you hand jobs or something else, like dry-humping, lap sitting, etc.?

 

How and why does your stepmom encourage you to jerk off? Also, what do you mean when you say she is very active?

 

My dad never talks about it, but my mum actively encourages me to masturbate because it's natural and really healthy, plus it just feels good! She even admitted that she did it all the time when she was my age

 

I was very close to my mum, I told her when I was young that I woke up in the night very wet and it felt hard. She told me to relieve myself by rubbing my penis which is called masturbating, and that I had a wet dream. She said that you will meet girls when you get older who will help do that. And added that you are a big lad down below so you should be popular with the girls

 

My parents were sexual prudes. They thought that masturbation and even touching ones genitals for anything thing other than washing or going to the bathroom was taboo!! If parents wouldn't force these antiquated, Victorian,anti antediluvian morals and ideas on their children the world might be a better place. Children should not grow up feeling guilty or bad about masturbating. It's normal, it's healthy, it's enjoyable and there is absolutely nothing wrong or perverse about it if it's done in privacy or with other willing participants. Besides it's normal adolescent curiosity!!!

 

It was never really discussed with my family one way or the other.