other than personal choice, I see no need zo use labels re.gender/sexuality choices except perhaps in the medical or social support fields. as I say above why the need to define yourself...u are as/what you are, and your sexual/emotional desires/preferences are no one's business except your own and your partners, or anyone u wish to inform. Yes, if u want or feel the need to so, even though i know i'm gay and other people know i'm gay, i should just go 'i'm not gay, it's only a label!'? completely ridiculous.[/QUOTE] ? True Simon
Call it what you want. We are male or female....nothing more. Some of us like same sex relations, some like heterosexual, and the lucky ones like both. I despise this constant need for a label. Stop trying to justify your sex drive with a label, and just enjoy life. Do what you want, and what makes you happy.