I think about sex all day long, but then when it's time to do it and I stick it in... it kind of hurts.... once I get going it feels good, but I actually get more enjoyment out of watching her feel good than in my own enjoyment.... What the hell's going on? Last time I got head and I was like "is she using her teeth or what?" she wasn't but I couldn't even enjoy it.... what the hell? I want to enjoy the pleasures of sex more, but I seemingly can't. Medical professionals would call this "dyspareunia," but what the heck do I do about it?
this can also be caused by an infection and also by an allergic reaction to birth control she is using. Have you ruled those two things out?
haha, no I am not a dr, although I am considering going back to school to be a NP. I do read a lot, and am very interested in health concerns. Not a know it all, but just trying to be helpful
I've never heard of painful intercourse for men. The only times it's been painful for me is when I've nearly drained everything out of me then have another orgasm. It kind of hurts, but in a good way. Wait... why am I commenting to this thread? lol