IMO the mind is the nucleus of all pleasure and pain. On the subject of sex, for me and my wife this is so true. I guess we can do this because 20 some years ago when we first started to hang out we were honest with each other regarding sex. Based on that honesty we have built pleasures that neither of us have felt before. Here is an example of our openness regarding sex. We had this discussion the other nite. The hottest human beings on earth are lady boys. I told my wife that to me they are like girls with a huge clits and if she had one I'd suck it frequently and would totally enjoy the prize that came with her fantastic orgasm. She said yea right you faggott. At least we both agree we're both bi. Our fantasies are as far as we will go but since we've told each other every sexual experience we've ever had they get old like reruns. Last nite she told me if I hook up with another any sex person we'd at least have some new stories. I suggested she start to make up a few. let's see if she will. Does anyone else here honestly discuss their true feelings and past sexual experiences with their partners? If so I'd love to hear them.
For a super sex life my recomendation is to begin leaning in the direction of openness with each other and when this is accomplished there is a whole new world of experiences between the two of you. Any thought of cheating becomes a non-issue. On some rare occasions when I least expect it I would come into the house at nite and she would have her strap on dildo sticking out of her jeans. She would say hey mister how about giving a guy a blow job. Then I would go about it in a way that showed I loved it. That's what would turn her on so much that she would just watch and start to moan. After a few moments she would squeeze the plunger and the dildo would squirt yogurt in my mouth and on my face then she would rip off her pants and she'd be as wet as if she peed her pants. Let the sex begin. I love that girl.
