Other Black Women and Muslims

Sorry to offend but this is a free speech zone.

Other black women and Muslims have a lot in common:

-Volatile
-Arrogant
-Controlling
-Prudish
-Narrow minded
-Violent
-Abrasive
etc.

These are the two groups of people I avoid. Exceptions include black women in my family and black Latinas because they have the Latin mentality.

I'm not racist. I don't think anyone is inferior to anyone else, not even crackheads. I also don't hate anyone. I love everyone I just don't like these two groups of people. I find that stereotypes are on average true.

All my life these two groups have been really mean and disrespectful to me. They love slut shaming and ho bashing. They see me as a threat because I'm closer to living consciously. They play follow the leader, they don't question.

At least Muslims have an excuse. It's their religion. They don't want to go to hell. But why are other black women so blind, so obedient, and so abrasive?

These two groups try to bully you into moving in a lockstep with society, a society that is supposedly about individuality. They have raging egos. Many black women call themselves Christians but their Christianity serves no purpose whatsoever. It doesn't teach them love, forgiveness, mercy, generosity, equality, or peace.

There is crabs in a barrel syndrome. I have dealt with it from a few arrogant black men but it runs rampant among black women. They try to control you. The older ones treat you like a little girl. If you're promiscuous they act like you're a serial killer. They make obnoxious comments to one up you and make themselves feel better. Any power they have is a power they use to mistreat one another.

I have intrusive thoughts of black women and Muslims calling me a ho, mocking me, enslaving me, manipulating me, and dominating my will and ruining my life and then saying "well it's not your fault." I would rather if everything WAS my fault so I could be held accountable for it. I'm right, they're wrong.

 

The women you describe seem to have quite a different mindset on things you care for than you. My take is you simply do not understand each other which is why you have made this thread and they resort to 'slut shaming and ho bashing'.
You may not be racist in the sense of finding a different race inferior but you are racist in the sense of discriminating a certain group of people because you find the stereotypes ring true. Wether it is done out of righteous defense or not. I agree the ones who would be actively bothering you about your private life are wrong, let's not judge all the other ones
But I'm wondering why did these women intrude on your life and have been mean and disrespectful to you? Do they know you? On what things have the ones that did those things actually based their convcitions on? Your apperance? Behaviour?

 

I like the honest person,

You should not have to be forced to like people that you do not... And being honest iz a hard thin to do...

There are a lot of people I dont like and I stay away from and nothing is wrong with that, in fact it makes people happier to stay away from people they do not like...

The problem comes in when people lie attack steal and take from people because no one is watching them ...

The world would be a great place if people let people fail on their own,

In other words if I fail because 'I fail' 'not being set up' then I have something to work on and grow from ... but if I fail because I have been setup because people dont like me for one reason or the other then ... I can sit back and laugh because those type of people are already beneath me ... they are beneath me because they have such low self esteem and feel so low about their chance of winning they cheat their way into thingz and say it was fair...


So I believe the initial poster is right ... they are expressing how they feel and what they do not want to be around...

 

Hey everyone, I've got this great new game. It's called Prejudice.

All you gotta do is define a group of people - define it any way you like, even in a negative way by reference to something that they aren't ... and then make sweeping generalisations and judgements about everyone who happens to fall into that group.

Oh yeah ... and if there's a recognized "~ism" connected with that group, you've gotta say "but I'm not a ~ist". That way nobody's allowed to say you are. And that's important, because calling people names isn't nice, is it? And nobody must be allowed to do it to you, must they?

 

Sorry to offend but since this is a 'free speech zone' I think people like OP are
Volatile
-Arrogant
-Controlling
-Prudish
-Narrow minded
-Violent
-Abrasive

and fucking douche bags that wave the banner of "I'm allowed to have an opinion" then gets butt hurt when the opinion is of them.

 

Where I live, a lot of people consider that a way of life, not a game, haha.

 

I'm sorry, but avoiding whole groups of people based on race makes you a capital 'R' racist.

 

"These two groups"? Have you personally met and been treated badly by each and every person in those groups?

 

i enjoyed your post. i agree with you 100%.

i hate black women and muslims also. i thought it was just the smell but you have opened my eyes to new reasons to hate them. thank you.

quote of the year here. 10 out of a possible 10.

 

^
I lolled

 

That's all american. Any gender, any age, any color and any sexuality. Violence comes from having been violated. If we don't have JUSTICE, we have no peace. Peace is non-violence.

No Justice, no Peace.

Nobody is born that way. We're cultivated to be that way.

 

I agree, cultivated or they haven't challenged the ways they were brought up. I'm grateful I was raised to love all colors, embrace differences between cultures, and never to hatefully harass anyone else who isn't the same. I'm not saying that I'm color blind, but that I judge the individual as a bitch or an ass on their own merits, rather than lump them all into one stereotypical racial basket. It seems as if you're doing exactly what you hate, making you just as judgmental as they are. I'm sorry for your bad experiences, but don't let them define you. Block them out and move on. Having hate for a whole races of women based off differing lifestyles is a waste of time & energy. Free yourself from this in the future, keep an open mind about those you're never even met. Honestly, I love to see and celebrate the wonderful, distinctive beauty as well as total differences in all races. But my bottom line to you is stand strong, don't let others walk all over you. Your race has nothing to do with it, you are human first and that is that. I know that racism is alive and well fresh as the morning breeze. Awww, who gives a damn? You just keep doing you....rolling right along....head up there. All the hate?...unnecessary. Peace to you.

 

Nobody can block out humanity, oxyqueen. You remind me of AmericanTerrorist, to be honest with you. She and yourself express the same idea.

I think we have a serious case of black evil on this planet. Maybe it's because of the internet, maybe it's because of 9/11. But no doubt about it, humanity has become more rabid and sinister, more violent.

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti

 

Just "lol" @ the mention of me.

That's because we both think that people have a choice of what they let effect them. You can be a sponge which can ultimately effect how you act or you can be bigger than things. Shrugs.


Oh and you can be as well adjusted as possible for YOURSELF and try to create small changes in ways you can...OR.. you can hold out hope for changing the whole world and be depressed when it doesn't work.

 

I don't think it's funny.

You spend enough time in a culture like this:



-Volatile
-Arrogant
-Controlling
-Prudish
-Narrow minded
-Violent
-Abrasive
etc.

and I guarantee you are going to be effected. You may like to think you choose, in every instance, and have total control but we don't.

What do you think that list is, genetic attributes?

 

Because they're uncivilized (compared to other cultures), and have been uncivilized for centuries. Now convergent with society that places value on the qualities you seem to favor. I'm not racist but lets be honest, "breeding" isn't exclusive to animals only; we know personality and behavior characteristics are largely genetic and environmental.

 

Love this quote

 

"But no doubt about it, humanity has become more rabid and sinister, more violent."

This is statistically false.
As a species, we're actually less violent than we've ever been in our entire existence.
Nice try, though. Use some actual facts, next time.

 

It isn't a "try" for anything, it's what I know. Don't agree? Well why would you, you're the master of evil.

What does statistics have to do with anything?

 

Reality and clearer perception of what's really going on in the world as juxtaposed to our entire history.

You say the world is more violent. It is empirically NOT more violent. That is an actual FACT. Not just a point of view of some random internet person with a hair up thier ass, looking to justify racsim.