Orgasm Denial/Chastity Play?

Hi, I recently got a new partner, and we have been doing some exploring. Before this I was strictly a sub but now I'm learning I'm actually a switch. As part of play we have been doing some orgasm denial/chastity play scenes. Since I'm still learning I have questions. In the latest scene he was not allowed to finish. During aftercare though, stuff got crazy. He started having waves that took over his entire body, but he said he still wanted to continue denial. It ended up happening every few minutes for close to an hour. He'd basically tense up and have spasms. He said it was one of the best things he's ever felt. I've been looking online for what this actually is or how to incorporate it into play, but I'm coming up empty. Any guys know what this is?

 

having done a little bit of it myself (thanks covid) I'll try to explain. One would think that a guy wouldn't want to be denied see as how fast many race for the finish line, so this is counter intuitive. When caged/denied I have this deep feeling inside and especially in and around my penis. When I know that I can't have gratification but my body longs for it, my body experiences deep sensations and emotions. There is this throbbing in my cock and a sort of intense sensation that goes up to my throat and even my head feels different, slightly euphoric in a good way, not light headed or anything. I just put my caged as I started typing and can feel all of these things now, and even some butterflies in my stomach. I don't know if that helps, but I hope so.

Caging my cock goes against my nature and is a strange experience.

 

I experience that frequently but I don't know what it is.

I usually "empty" my load the night before and day of having sex. That way, I can pound continuously for hours but I sacrifice my own orgasm which is fine with me. Otherwise, I'd be lucky to last 30 mins.

When things get really hot, I get light headed, grit my teeth, try not to crush her, body shakes in waves that you describe. But it doesn't feel like an orgasm, there is none of that automatic pumping, no ejaculation or even pre-ejaculate.

I don't know what it is but it feels great, actually incredible!

 

A well-described feeling. This is better for me than an orgasm

 

My started doing that to me in my early thirties, I would be standing completely naked with my hands tied behind my back unable to do anything but let her have her way.

It was tortuous bringing me close to orgasm multiple times and always denying me at the last moment, laughing when my cock would shoot one little spurt of semen when I wanted and needed to unload completely.

The best was allowing her friends to watch and laugh hysterically at my torment.