My boyfriend is extremely reluctant to go down on me and it is driving me nuts. We've been together a while and before I was with him I'd never had a boyfriend who did not oblige - some really got off on it. I know it's not personal as he told me his previous girlfiend complained too. Oral - giving and receiving - used to be one of my favourite things but now I've given up giving too as I just feel resentful. Even if I could persuade him, not sure I'd even enjoy it know he didn't. Feel like I'm totally missing out. Outside of the bedroom he's the perfect guy. what do I do??