Question for the laddies. I want to give my partner the best sex i possibly can. If i make her cum once my goal would stretch and i wouldnt be happy until i made her cum twice and so on. I would allways push to be beyter. I love eating pussy but i have hit a over thinking block. And now feel im not using my intuition, in tbe moment. Taking detail to all the little movements. Im still workimg my gf out as we not been together long. I now, can not get her to climax through oral sex. This gets in my head and effects my performance more i feel. I have asked if its bad and she said no i love it everything you do, even thi shes not cum. I cant help to think she would be just considering my feelings. So the question is. What do woman like, how do you rate "yeah hes good, he knows what to do". Obviously all woman are different but a ball part of what i need to do to get her there. I feel i know all the right things to do, startimg way b4 any sex and not going straight in ect. But i question myself incase im juat being cocky , and thi k i know but actually no jack shit. And i know being in my head is a factor. I have wanted to ask my girly friends but too embarrased. I dont want to keep licking pussy thinking im average when i coukd be terrible. And awesome is what i want to be. Because i get turnt on the most when i know for sure the woman is havimg a good time, thus we both have a great time.
You don’t need to only ask woman for that. What do you need his practice and communication between you and your partner. Also a bit of honesty that you are not the most experienced maybe. Not all women are the same. Some need to stop and some are able to keep going. Also not every women are the same for how they want it done. Try pressing your lips around her clitoris and suck it in your mouth, and use your tongue on it nonstop
If you believe what your doing is not enough ask, talking to your partner openly and honestly is what many couples are lacking. If you can get your partner to open up about all things including sex your relationship will prosper.
As you change things up while your down on her ask her what she thought of certain things you did. Do a mix of everything....you should be able to tell by her sounds what is working for her and what sends her over the edge. A real relationship is open to talking about what each other needs to get that happy ending! Even if she can't climax by just your tongue...it's not that your doing something wrong...some women's clitoral likes to be a pain in the ass sometimes. Just make sure she is enjoying what you do give!
