Oral sex to initiate intercourse, how far should I take her?

When I'm getting a girl ready for intercourse, should I perform oral just long enough to get her good and juicy, then transition to intercourse, or should I let her have an orgasm via oral, and then initiate intercourse? What is a typical cooldown period for a woman after she has an orgasm? Will she be ready to go for vaginal sex in a short period of time?

 

Yes yes and yes.

She would probably love an oral or foreplay of some kind orgasm.

Yes she might want to go half way into intercourse.

Yes she should be able to go right to intercourse right after an orgasm.

Just remember she might not be able to orgasm by intercourse so if you get her to it before then make sure she has one.

 

She might not be able to orgasm from oral either.

 

It is all really dependent on the woman you are with! The fun part is figuring what works best for them.

My lady loves receiving oral and I love giving it so it isn't always just a warm up for intercourse. Sometimes it is the main show. She does the same for me so it is all good.

Just always put in your best effort and I am sure it will be appreciated.

 

I wouldn't say cool down either, maybe a "slow down for a second" that's all. My guy knows this already though and he usually starts his oral after an amount of time of intercourse first and usually after my first orgasm.

 

Yes, that's why I said orgasm of some kind. Some say they can have one by intercourse alone, not me, never have.

And no, I don't need a cool down time either, going onto something else can bring me into another.

 

best thing is to give her pleasure and if she wants to stop you she will. Afterwards you can talk about it and the next time it will be even clearer what she wants. Have fun

 

Don't forget - we women are capable of multiple orgasms.
If she cums because of your oral skills, that doesn't deflate her libido as it does yours.
Maybe give her a minute or two to come down, and she'll almost certainly welcome you inside her .... and she'll be well on the way to a second "O"

Not guaranteed, by it's one helluva good time finding out!

 

The main thing is gentle communication and sensitivity to what the girl wants and feels. I always start by putting a special lubricant on the girl's clitoris and gently rubbing it with my fingertip. I like "Make Me Cum" clit sensitizer available online from Adam & Eve. The active ingredient, l-arginine, increases blood flow to the clitoris and makes a big difference.

When you feel the girl responding to the clitoral stimulation, ask her "Do you want me to use my mouth?" Let her decide what she wants. Either way, say "Tell me when you want me." It's that simple. Empower her to ask for your cock when she's ready for it, and you don't have to do any thinking or planning.

If the girl doesn't ask for your cock, she may want to go all the way with a clitoral orgasm. Give her what she wants and build trust. That's what being a lover really means. Don't worry about your cock. She'll take good care of it at the right time.

A clitoral orgasm can take 15 to 30 minutes to achieve and can last 3 to 5 minutes. The biggest mistake men make is not being patient with the girl. You'll know she's "cooled down" when she relaxes and stops moving her hips around.

If you've lost your erection by then, ask her to use her hand or mouth to get you hard again. Forget the porn star crap you see on the internet about guys that stay rock-hard for 40 minutes. Be real and free of anxiety. Show her a little tenderness and she will give your cock a royal treatment.

 

eat it till she cums! I do this to my wife and as soon as she cums she pulls me up to fuck her. As soon as I put it in she cums again and I can usually get a third out of her.

 

Make her cum and then as she is still in that moment slide into her.

 

Good topic... So when I initiate oral I typically take my wife to orgasm, but that's mainly because she sometimes doesn't have an orgasm from sex unless she takes on a specific position. But also my wife can have multiple orgasms orally or with oral and sex, so I figure if I get her off orally and then get her off with sex she gets a double.

but that said I also love to make her cum orally too, so it's partially me wanting that satisfaction of bringing her over the edge as well cause for some reason I love it when she's orgasming and quivering with my head between her legs. The few times I've brought her to the brink orally and she has usually came during sex as she's already warmed up. I guess I just figure if I could get my wife off 10 times I'd do it, so getting her off orally is one of the ways.

Unlike a guy who sometimes after the first you are done, woman have no limits, so why not go for the max...

 

I would let her cum. why have all the pleasure ? then a lot depends on the woman. some would say go in and have sex. some might rather wait a little. best way is ask

 

I....I.........I think I love you. ...sniff

 

I love making her cum with plenty of kissing and licking and sucking and just as she cums and hits that high I slide my dick into her and go for gold!! She loves it, as do I. Always remember to give the lady what she wants and needs and you will be a happy man!!

 

Very hot.

 

would it be something that you enjoy storm?

 

pay attention to her and work with that. The woman I am with now won't cum from intercourse but if I give her a g-spot orgams with oral I can get on and give her orgasms over and over from intercourse.

They are all different and that is the best part. I had an 8 year relationship with a woman that at first wanted to cum once and then didn't want me to touch her for hours, it took me a long time to figure out that I needed to back off, go gentle and she'd get back to wanting more after a few minutes of slowly "making love to her"

Find her spots, her likes, her wants and needs and give her what she wants and you'll get what you want after.

If you are going down on her and she is going to cum don't stop, make her cum and then watch her and normally they pull you up or start kissing and just go along.

 

I would more than enjoy it, if I could have it. Just you writing about it turned me on greatly.