I enjoy receiving oral, expect to receive it from men I go down on (wouldn't go down otherwise). There's only an oral sex inequality if women allow, many women aren't assertive enough or even aware enough to ask for what they need (and I encourage them to learn to do this). My first same gender oral sex experience was not good and I am thinking a lot now about going down on my current female romantic interest but she's a smoker and she doesn't smell good so I figure I will lovingly wash her myself before going down on her (and have her get tested for STDs and yeast infections by her OBGYN as well because a bad odor can also imply health issues). I get tested and have exams regularly so I would expect reciprocity in that regard. I'm actually looking forward to trying same gender oral again, I find myself almost exclusively watching lesbian porn that shows oral occurring and it just looks so satisfying to give and receive.
You can't count any of the women that I've had sex with because I happily orally serviced every one of them. I love the taste , smell and feel of pussy!
In my experience, middle-aged women suck cock better than young women. And they seem to enjoy the act of sucking cock more.
If the women I know, knew how I absolutely love to eat pussy and how good I am at it. For now I going to keep it to myself. I dated a young lady once, and for the first 6 months, all we did was oral sex. We had a blast! I can eat pussy all day, every day!
In my experience, there is a gap. It just goes the other way. I am an energetic pussy licker. Love giving oral sex. Getting it in return... not so much. My ex loved receiving, but must have thought my dick was poison. My wife will do it now, but only for a short time. Other women have flat out refused, but were more than willing to get. I had an affair partner as my first marriage was falling apart. Now she knew how to and loved it. Oh well.