how many of you have tried open relationships and how did they turn out? Who suggested it and how did the other person react? Any advice for a girl that wants to suggest this to her partner? How would it be the best way to approach it while reassuring him that this is not at all a shortfall on his end? I want us to be able to enjoy other people together as well as being comfortable and confident enough to enjoy them separately
Fucking my wife and her cousin together and then spending time with her alone. My wife suggested it because I have a hungry sex drive and I need to have regular sex
We have had a open relationship for most of our 33 years of marriage. Just have to be careful of who you bring in. Jealousy will make for some bad times.
I've been in an open relationship, where the idea came up during a regular conversation, and we both said that it might be fun to try, so we did. My advice would be to initialy bring it up in a conversation if possible (it is always possible) then see how he reacts to the topic and decide from there how to proceed. Now I am assuming that you know your partner fairly well, if he is the jealoux type of person then it probably won't be something he'll enjoy, same thing if he has low self esteam and/or low self worth. In case he is not into it, you have some decissions to make such as how important is this "lifestyle" to you. what kind of relationship do the two of you have. do you think it is possible that you might end up cheating n him somewere down the line due to an unfulfilled desire and so on.
I’m not currently in a relationship but I am involved with a girl currently who is in one and I was her first voyage after they opened it up. We are strictly FWB though so no feelings involved and everyone seems to be having fun.
Sometimes you can just ask. I have found that most people will tell you some but not all. We have done about everything there is to do.
My wife and I have been in various forms of an open relationship for 40 years. One way to get the conversation going is to have another couple that's interested in the two of you approach the subject. Also, remember that when you start this be open with each other and save your best sexual passions for your partner. When your partner realizes that hotter than ever for them it will make it much easier. Don't ever come home tired or cranky after you've been with someone else.
My husband and I have had an open relationship for 16 years now. We started slow, with a threesome with one of my best friends. Then we kind of went from there. We let it evolve into what it is today. I think the most important part is being honest. I'm not sure an open relationship can work without honesty.
We've had an open marriage for most of our 5 year marriage. My husband suggested it. I wasn't surprised when he mentioned it because he's always been super kinky. I started out a little jealous because he hooked up with a hottie right away. He took care of my jealousy by continuously reassuring me, plus my jealous went mostly away when I had a guy. My main suggestion is to just reassure the partner that may be slightly jealous. I think one partner may be slightly jealous. Its turned out great and I never want to go back!
My husband and I have been for about 10 yrs and it started while he was in the service. Started with him making nude pics of me and showing them to some of the guys he worked with that did not know me. After a while he talked me into doing a train with some of them that did know me and it went from their. You must be honest with each other and support each other for it to work.
Me and my fiance have been open since we got together. Sexual Monogamy didnt make sense to either of us. We have rules and if we think someone will be drama or cause bullshit we can veto that person. Ten years strong
We have been with a number of guys but try to stay with regulars so we are more comfortable with it. I am not sure we will ever stop he likes it very much to watch as to play
My wife and I have an open marriage of sorts. My heart and soul belong to my wife, but my sexual appetite is shared with other woman. It is only sex, I make no effort to share anything emotionally with other woman. We've been like this for a long time though. It works for us because my wife is a voyeur and gets turned on by visuals, so watching her girl with another girl/s is something she enjoys plus she will engage in activity when she feels like it, or critique me when I'm finished. >.> It is good for us because it means we have a lot of good communication because it's all about communicating to each other and the ability to express sexual desire with your partner strengthens our bond, with us anyway.
