IM ENGAGED TO TRUST ME WHEN I SAY I GET IT. MY FIANCE' IS BI HE LOVES GIVIGN BJS AND HAVING ANAL BUT WONT WITH ME OUCH AND THANK GOD! WE HAVE A 3 WAY WITH ANOTHER BI GUY BEFORE AND IT WAS INTERESTING HE WANTED ME TO EXPERIECE IT THE RIGHT WAY NOT FORCED LIKE IT HAPPEN BEFORE. I WONT LIE SOMETIMES I GET JEALOUS WHEN HE WANTS TO GO TO THERE PLACE AND NOT STAY HOME LET ME EXPAIN WE HAVE A CAMERA WHICH THEY KNOW ABOUT AND I LIKE TO WATCH SO I CAN HEAR HE MON SINCE WHEN WE HAVE SEX HE REALLY DOESNT AS MUCH. HE GOES ON GRINDR ALOT AND TALKS TO ALOT OF THEM WHICH BOTHERS ME CAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHATS BEING SAID BUT HE TELLS ME HE LOVES BEING A SUBMISSIVE SISSY SLUT TO GUYS AND BEING USED AND POUNDED STUPID OR SPANKED CAUSE HE LOVES BRUISES. ME PERSONAL IVE NEVER BEEN WITH A FEMALE AND ID NEVER CHEAT ON HIM EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE TELL ME THATS CHEATING. WHAT GETS TO ME IS WHEN I SEE A GUY KISSING HIS NECK BACK ECT AND HES GOING CRAZY AND WHEN I DO NOTHING REALLY HAPPENS HE DOES HAVE A HARD TIME KEEPING IT UP SO HE TAKES PILLS OR A SHOT SO WE HAVE TO SCHEDULE A TIME WHEN WE DO AND I GET ALOT OF I DONT HAVE THE ENTERGY BUT HES GOT IT FOR A GUY WTF? SO YEAH I QUESTION IF IM GOOD ENOUGH OR IS HE BORED WITH ME ECT
If your ok with it, it's ok. If you want to explore ffm tell him. Most guys would be up for it. If you want him to put on a show so you can see him suck or be sucked then tell him. He might be into you sharing the experience. If he/they are not willing to let you watch then it's one sided. You both have to be happy. He says he's happy if he can't play but if you find common ground you can have the best of both worlds.
Open relationships can work with lots of trust and communication. My wife and I are both bisexual. I've always been supportive and encouraging of her pursuing her needs/desires for women whenever she feels the need to do so. Her, not so much, she's not as open-minded and encouraging when it comes to mybisexuality. Ironically, she has a boyfriend. This is partly due to my cuckold desires, and partly due to the fact that she never stopped loving him (he's her highschool sweetheart). They've always maintained a "close" friendship over the years. I've been 100% supportive and encouraging of her girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with him for the last 6 years. It's more of a one-sided open relationship for her than it is a cuckold marriage, but my cuckold needs/desires are also met. These days, my bisexual desires are met by me fantasizing about her boyfriend's BIG dick (which she knows all about), and me watching gay (mostly bareback), transgender and MMF bisexual porn.