Open Relationship With Bisexual Husband.

I wouldn't over think it. He just wants to suck a cock every now and then, No big deal.I explained this to my wife when we met. She had a zillion questions also and I had to slow her roll.
Gay guys want love and cuddle, bi guys want a blow and go, so if your ok with it just let him and relax.
It's just sex baby.

 

We have had a open marriage now for 5 years now after being married for 20 years and have grown children! I'm bi. We tried to keep this a secrete but found out that was impossible especially from our kids who are not kids any more! We all so found that young guys love older women for most of my wife's lovers are in there 30's and my wife is 52. Being bi doesn't bother my wife a bit but she has to know who the guy is and when I'm with him so having a one night stand hardly never happens but I'm fine with that! She makes me take a shower every time I've been with a guy! What that solves I really don't know!

 

I think the hardest part for you may be a dynamic more common to men than women. For men its very easy to compartmentalize sex away from love and emotion and If I had to guess thats what makes his desire for something more difficult for you. It doesn’t sound like he is diss satisfied with you, he just has desires sexually with men. Its unlikely that he want to fall in love with someone else. Most women have a hard time understanding the disconnect men have between sex and love because they can’t imagine it.

 

Thanks for you input it made us think a little more then we have been!

 

I've yet been with a guy that I've been with attracted to him. The only reason I might wanted to see him again is because of his cock the way it looks the size and mostly how he works his cock in my mouth and mostly how his cum taste like other then that I have no desire to see him again! My wife is different she falls in love with the guy and see the guy often she is always truthful with me! Maybe it's because she is a kind soft heated women!

 

hi Popolo, my wife and i were similar, in an open relationship 8 years after seventeen married. we have now separated and your last paragraph struck a chord. she also wanted to know everyone i was meeting and I found I couldn't do that, to a degree I felt it was private, and being quite promiscuous I suppose I felt she would be shocked. I should say at that time I religiously practiced safe sex other than oral. It was not the only reason for us separating, she is twelve years younger and at a different stage in her life.

The deal was that we were open but that she was my only female, which I observed. I'm more at the gay end of the bisexual scale anyway.

While I miss the company and companionship I can say that I have more sex now than ever in my life, and that includes twenty years as a bachelor before marrying. And the last eighteen months with the availability of PrEP has only made it less complicated. I think the changing attitudes to sexuality and labels is so refreshing.

Simon

 

I'm sorry to hear you have broken ties with your wife! Yes my wife wants to know every guy I've been with but that is almost impossible if not impossible!
I have one night stands as they call them and at times even i don't know who the guy was! My wife is 52 and I'm 58 I married her when she was in high school and she had a boyfriend at the time who broke her cherry when she was in the 9th grade. So our open marriage really started even before we got married. As far what guy I've been with being private i don't look at it that way. There is no privacy in our marriage we tell each other every thing!
"You being at the gay end of your bisexual scale any way" I don't understand that phrase!.....?

 

Bisexual but leans more towards men would be the common interpretation.

 

yes... that's it.....say on the kinsey scale..... maybe at 5....

The Kinsey scale, also called the Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating Scale,[1] is used in research to describe a person's sexual orientation based on one’s experience or response at a given time. The scale typically ranges from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to a 6, meaning exclusively homosexual.

Simon

 

I'm a bisexual husband but I love my wife and will love her until the day I die.......Her pussy gave me 4 kids and her pussy is what I want for ever also!
Yes I love cock make no mistake about it but if I had to make a choice pussy would be first! .......................

 

One of my daughters also has a open marriage and at times her and her mom often share the same guy!

 

Wow

Wow lucky guy...

 

Not to many guys get to fuck mom and daughter that's for sure!

 

It would be hot

 

Making the daughter cum while mom watched would be very sexy

 

That's what my wife said................Well any way he fucked my wife once but fucked my daughter twice! I guess my daughter had a tight pussy!

 

That's hot

 

Well my daughter has always known we had a open marriage and when she got married she convinced her husband they have a open marriage also but it took a while for her husband backed out twice he didn't want to share her but he finally gave in! My daughter only 19 young and beautiful she had no trouble finding a guy who wanted to fuck her even though she was with her mom and the guy ended up fucking mom also! ......

 

Nothing wrong with that

 

Some criticize me for letting my daughter have a open marriage but I couldn't stop her!