That's me, "only bi in a sexual way". Is this quite normal? I've slept with plenty of guys but I've never had a crush on a single one or any feelings at all. Obviously that's not everyone. I've had countless crushes on the ladies and almost countless relationships but I've never had a relationship with a man. It's just been alcohol, probably some narcotics of some description, bang and then I'm off. The only feelings I've really ever woken up with afterwards have been more along the lines of, "oh my God what have you done now". I've had similar feelings after one-night stands with some of the 'ladies' but equally I've woken up with a huge crush on said lady.
I am Bi in a sexual way too. I am married, love looking at women but just can't get myself to look at a man and say....yummy, I want a piece of that! When my wife and I are in bed we fantasize about multiple men with us taking care of both of us and we take care of all of them....
You are fine. Very often, men do not feel too keen on developing strong emotional bonds with their male sexual partners. The working theory here is that the evolutionary cost of m2m sexual intercourse has been very low as opposed to m2f which in evolutionary terms involved the high likelihood of pregnancy and the ensuing burden of child bearing and rearing. I have come across a few gay men who insisted that having sex with other men was some sort of highly pleasing, heavily assisted masturbation... In evolutionary terms, you could see where they were coming from... KD
