Only answer if you are a guy.. or have a peen.

I like giving the GF a good ride up the back door. She had never even thought of it till I showed up and I just played with her butt for a long time and she enjoyed the feeling of it being caressed, then a small finger very slowly pushed inside. After much of this over several nights of play (a few weeks here) she was well lubed with wine and wanted me to take her. Again I did it in very small steps and she loved it. When it was finally time I again slowly, gently entered her (several minutes). After some time she was not just ok with it but pushing back into me hard. Now she and I enjoy it now and then and each time it has to be painless for her or else it is just no fun for me.

 

Cool I'm glad so many guys answered - and answered honestly.

I've tried anal a few times. literally the first time I was all fucked up having sex with this dude doggie style, he asked if he could put it in my butt and I was like yeah!!!!! and literally wanted to commit suicide after. It was only in there for like 5 seconds.

Then with my bf now we've done a lot of anal play (I actually like having him use his mouth as long as I've JUST showered lol)

But I don't know I can't get into it. I feel like it seems like a lot of work...(getting to the point where I am comfortable with an entire penis in there, for an extended period of time) and all just to do something that might be a great feeling but might just be a waste of time. And not to mention a guy can't look at you as sexy any more if he gets poop from your butthole on his penis. amiright?

 

I love giving oral to my female partner. And should it not be her thing to return the pleasure that is OK. I look at the whole package and not single elements when choosing fun, exciting and enjoyable life partners

 

If you don't have the frame of mind that you will and can enjoy anal sex, you never will enjoy it. If your BF is moving to quickly or the position is not right you have to communicate with him. Fucking a woman who is into anal sex is worth any effort it takes for her to be comfortable.
You're wrong about the poop thing. Shit happens, it doesn't have to and doesn't any more for us. Experience has taught us how to prepare for anal. We've had a few messy situations but it was never a big deal. My wife preps with a warm water enema now and we haven't had a shit dick incident in years.
My wifes greatest gift to me was her giving me her asshome to fuck.

 

I really enjoy anal play rather than anal sex, more a part of foreplay than actual sex.

 

It's a different sensation nothing compares to a warm moist pussy but change is good once in a while. Like others are saying its no deal breaker but a big bonus. If my girl says no ill go jack off to some anal porn when she's not around visualization and fantasy is good enough for me