Online BDSM stuff drives me up the wall

Honestly I think the BDSM is a ton of fun but the BDSM community drives me up the wall.

This way is the "right way" and this is the "wrong way"

Um excuse me but like I have my own imagination and before and of this was online playing tie up with women was fun and I didn't even know any of this had a name. I thought I invented it.

So now taking turns is a "switch" and one way or another I am doing that wrong too because someone else self appointed themselves as the experts who "know" the right way better then me.

This is back when I first found this stuff online. I don't know. That's how I reacted.

It was a relief know that getting turned on by kinky stuff was so mainstream when internet came out.