last night i went back to a female friends house after a night out, we had more drinks at her house, one thing led to another and we was all over eachother and to start with i was erect to begin with and once in the bedroom during intercourse i started to go soft, i have fancied her for ages and it was so embarrassing, i have never suffered from brewers droop before, does anyone know what i can do to prevent this as i don't want to be in the same situation again and i plan on seeing her again very soon and i do not want a repeat of what happened, i woke up this morning in her bed and i was still feeling embarrassed and didn't really know what to say to her about it
Don;t beat yourself up. Ladies understand the alcohol effect. No biggie. I've been there. Not as big a deal as guys make it,
This happens to the best ones - never mind that I think a lot of ladies know that if you had one ore more "few" drinks not everything functions as it should - neext day is always good to prove that or when you see her again - do not let yourself brainfuck by that.
Its really not a big deal.. it happens... After A while I always knew when he was too drunk to have sex... Anyway, we got a cock ring. That helped when he had a few too, too many.
some loving attention and lip action usually does the trick. just talking together and relaxing usually brings things back to life.
I will open up to say I have had numerous "performance anxiety" issues my whole life. I have zero problems once the girl/woman and I dated for awhile and I became comfortable around her. Talk to any woman, particularly one 40+ and you will find this is more common than you think. Having said this, I have found that what works best in those early days is not to rush the sex...Annnd...not to put the emphasis on intercourse. Taking it slow, engaging foreplay and sensual kissing/ looking into her eyes usually worked for me. At this point, be aware you may have set yourself up for failure. Now that you have had the problem with this woman, no doubt you will be consumed by the fear of a repeat non performance. In my opinion the best fix for this is to just tell her. If she is worth knowing she will by sympathetic.
My husband knows and allows me to be the slut i am. I travel frequently for my job and often find myself in Hotels all over the country. That said its not hard to find a man either single or married to share my nights with. I absolutely love NSA sex; there are so many different ways different men have sex. That's the fun of it all!!!!!!!!
yeah, but repeatedly pretending to be a woman on an internet forum is not one of them. that's just masturbation, not sex.
Sounds like what I have gone thru; and speaking from personal experience, do not rely on alcohol as an aphrodisiac.
Unfortunately dude she'll remember you as the guy who didn't satisfy her. But don't beat yourself up just make it up by getting another opportunity. If she's a mature woman she won't tell anyone. I've been on one night stands where the guy was absolutely good looking but alcohol couldn't get him to please me. I gave him a chance a few days later and it definitely was the alcohol.
I bougt my BF some aphrodisiacs, i thought it woud be a scam or something, but no! it really worked, he had a strong errection for a long night and sex was like no other. by the way i bout this one- https://toys-foradults.myshopify.com/products/sex-aphrodisiac-for-men-mens-cologne-in-perfume
