One Night Stand Bar

Most nights when I'm out on the town I'm looking for that special person with whom I can have a long-term relationship. There are certain criteria I use during this search, some of which may be unreasonable, which might explain why I've never been married. But that's conversation for a different thread.

There are other times where I just need to have sex really bad. But I don't want a relationship with this person, have to give someone my name, address, etc. I just need sex and right now, and then say goodbye. Normally in these situations I just go home and masturbate.

One option is to pay for a male prostitute. But I don't like paying for sex, and it's also illegal in most places. Why aren't there bars that cater to this clientele? Just have the ability to go in, pay a cover charge, select your partner, and head to room #14 for a quickie. No money, just bodily fluids change hands. And when you're done, it's goodbye.

What is wrong with this business model?

 

The authorities would not let such an establishment exist. They would shut it down out of fear of endangering "public health" through the spread of STDs - and they would probably have good reason to have those fears.

Plato's Retreat in NYC was shut down for this reason a long time ago, and NYC is one of the most liberal and promiscuous cities in the U.S.

 

What a shame. Maybe if members had to bring a doctor's letter.

 

Or maybe if the deal was that women could go there to be orally serviced by men (and other women, if they wanted to give that a try) and the men had to keep their spunk to themselves, maybe that would work.

 

That's no fun!

 

interesting problem. Back ins my honky tonk bar running days don't call that being the problem. More like too many guys looking for the same.

 

Every try going to a bar wearing something sexy, walk up to a guy and just say "No names, let's go somewhere and fuck."? I bet it would work more times than not.

 

Nothing that I can see if everyone involved is a consenting adult and no money changes hands.
But the laws being what they are, there's no doubt something that could be used as an excuse to shut such a place down, I like the idea though...

 

I’d guess this happens but pretty rare. But what do I know.

 

I have to admit I never tried that. I guess I'd worry the guy would think me desperate (which I would be) or crazy (which I have been called) and walk away in disgust. But I guess it's worth a try.

 

Be careful. Lots of cra cra people out there

 

I would really like to know more about who I'm fucking, unless they have heard about me

 

First of all, this is what Tinder is for. Friends I have collect fuckbuddies and there is always one available!

Secondly, I agree with FreakyNikki. Just go to a club or bar, look a guy in the eyes and he will be yours. You're a woman! It's that easy for you!

 

It's a good business model that is found in most major metropolitan areas. It's called a swingers club. The clientele are mostly married but there are singles who attend the club socials. I have seen by the OP's other posts she may have issues with married individuals fucking others than the spouse. It would be very likely she would have to fuck a married man but at least there would be no drama afterwards. She can go in, pay a cover charge, select her partner, and head to a room for the quickie but expect there may be someone who would want to watch. There are private areas at these clubs where she could have him to herself if she so chooses. At the very least the other woman will know she fucked her man. But at the end she can say thanks and goodbye.

 

Thanks, Barry Mandelay. In this situation I don't care if he's married or single. Actually I wouldn't want to know, and I don't want to have to introduce myself either.

 

Not sure about the easy part. I guess it just takes courage to do that where guys might not be there for that kinda thing.

 

Just maybe, at least guys with any sort of goal in life, feel it not worth the risk of getting mud pies thrown at them, FORTY YEARS from now for that quickie they got one night. Like Bob sang years ago "The times they are a changing"

 

I carry magnums for this reason. It has happened but safe is important!

 

Nothing good business model.
Go online and find a swinger club in your area. They are open to letting in women alone but usually not men.
I did this with a female friend of mine about 8 years ago. It was great and yes mostly married couples but a lot of ffm threesomes. As we all know women can go for a long time but us men need time to recover unless you are 25 or young.
We had three ffm over our time there and one mmf. It is best if you go and get comfortable with a few couples then you end you getting invited to house party which as usually 4 couples and sometime a few single women. On once did I see a lone male at a house party . He was an exception because the host thought he was a hung black guy. It turned out he was no bigger than her husband . He was never invited back.
If you are looking join a swingers club in your area and you may end up with a single couple inviting you to their house. It happened to me as the husband could not get it hard any more so we had his approval but he had to be present the first couple of times . She was 50 and he was 65.
It lasted about 10 session and we both decide it was hurting their relationship so we stopped.
Always make him us protection as there are some nasty things going around and some don't show up for years like Hep C
Good luck and let me know if you go to any parties.

 

yeah I suppose it takes some courage. It will maybe also depend on the type of guy you're approaching. If you're approaching one of those 'perfect' guys who prefer skinny models with fake tits and lips you might crash. Unless you're one of those
But, being just a moderately attractive woman, your chances of succes to find someone this way and for that purpose are quite good! And even if you fail on the first, or even the second one, your third attempt will surely be successful.