I was pretty much of a slut before I met and married my husband. I loved sex, any kind, and a lot of it. I guess I had finished with all my wild times and decided to settle down. My husband on the other hand was a virgin until our second date. After being married for over 20 year I still won't tell him about my past. Sometimes I slip up and let out bits of my past that gets him even more curious. He keeps bugging me to tell him everything about my sexual past. I don't do the same with him like I did before we met. I quite doing blow jobs and swallowing. I also quite anal. He is kind of small so we just mostly do basic missionary once a week. He wants more but I have been there, done that, and kind of "worn out" if you know what I mean. Do I tell him about my past to get him to quit bugging me about my past and let him know why I don't want to do blow jobs and anal anymore? Or do I keep quite about my past and keep telling him no? I "put out" enough to keep him. He is not going anywhere.
That is a horrifically sad existence of a relationship. Nice of you to keep his low self esteem balanced between thinking he has no other chance than you and he has no chance with you.
So you got to experience things in the past and are tired of them so your husband never gets to experience them? All he has done is stay with you for 20 years why would you want him to get a chance to know what it is like? Poor guy.
If you were my wife i would drink poison in one shot. Better that than one more day dealing with a selfish recovered slut.
I think you're a troll so...on the off chance your not and I am hopefully wrong. You should just give him what he wants since your experiences with the other types of sex acts that you no longer want to do because you are "worn out" and "been there done that". Technically isn't the same because your husband wasn't the one doing them, and the men you did do those acts with might've just been doing it wrong giving you a biased opinion and now slanting your entire married life in what might be something you end up liking because you hopefully are doing them with someone you love. Teach him stuff about what you like, and perhaps you might learn aspects about yourself not even you knew during your "slutty" (your term not mine) years/phase. Also get yourself and STD/STI check to make sure you are clean. Also you typed the wrong word in your OP, you mean quit, not quite.
