I'm 20 going on 21 and I'm absolutely fixated on older men. They turn me on do much , men 10-20 years older than me. I'm worried about approaching men older than me and what they would think. Any advice?
Unfortunately, I do not have any suggestions but I want to say I share your sentiment when it comes to older men. Their sophistication both outside and especially inside the bedroom are so sexy, I can barely handle myself. Unlike the lousy men my age, 19 going on 20 that fumble around in the bedroom and don't know what the hell they are doing.
Replying as an 'older' guy, I always worry if the lady is enjoying herself, FIRST!..and like a nice guy..I always finish ...last..it seems to keep my wife happy..and that's all that matters to me...
Speaking as a 53 year old, not only do I have a wife who is 20 years younger than me, but I also have a 29 year old work colleague who makes no secret of her attraction to me and older guys in general!
For you younger women who have a desire to test the mattress springs with an older guy, trust me when I tell you that we are much easier to approach than someone your age. I say this because we normally can pick up some of the sign's about a lot of what you're thinking. Most times we will assist you in overcoming your shyness if we can sense there is a sexual desire but not in a way to appear like a perverted old man. Most likely what a lot of us older guys would do is find a way to put you at ease, building an atmosphere that would help encourage you to take the step you are thinking just isn't possible!
"I always make a girl cum first" lol, that's so like, 90% of male answers. 50 million threads on the internet suggest otherwise.
:rofl: Right? Just like how everyone has an 8" dick and can fuck for HOURS and only cums after the woman has had at least 10 orgasms.
Id be very flattered - -and if I wasnt in a relationship I might be prone to take action- I never think that a women less than my age would be attracted,, but I know thier are all kinds of people out there- bless you jack
It is true in my case (not the 8 hour fuck..lol)..maybe not 10 orgasms for her..but..I have always felt that the lady deserves all my attention..and if SHE! is enjoying herself..my turn will come..(no pun intended)..chivalrous??...old fashioned?? I dunno..as long as SHE! is happy, with a smile on her face..I am happy.
Hello, I'm a 37 year old man and you shouldn't be worried about what an older man would think if you approach them. Most older men would be honored to have a sexy young woman attracted to them.
Speaking for myself and maybe other older dudes can relate, but like my name to the left implies, it seems the wife is not interested in sex but once a month or more so I feel I am forced to go find it somewhere else and have told her this. I also think about bringing a threesome to try to jump start our (her) dead sex life. I get so horny anymore I think sometimes what it would be like with same sex, but couldn't do the full kissing and back door stuff, just the thought of his dick. But if a young lady was to come along and hit up on me I don't think at this point I would turn her down and I would greatly appreciate her asking. I think I would be re-rejuvenated and would fuck like a porn star before my heart attack.unk:
Being single, and pretty much a loner, I don't get as much as I would like (who does), and find that most of the time I have to be satisfied with masturbation. However, this does make me far more appreciative when I do get some. Furthermore, I find that the older partners are often in a similar situation and those, especially, whose have either been widowed or divorced also find that having once had a regular supply which has since been cut off, are also very appreciative, and on top of that, the older ones have far more experience.
