Older Married Men trying it.

Are you an older married man, who is Sexually alone and tried something with a gay/bi friend? Are you a Gay friend who has a little fun with a horny friend?
For me, It was an easy no strings bj, from a friend. He just wanted to suck my cock and never asked for anything in return. Getting a bj, was ok, but I wasn't interested or curious about doing anything to him. My wife guilted me and sparked a curiousity in me, that I never had.
My wife insisted it was better than me cheating with another woman and encouraged it, with him

 

Good to have a friend like that! Wish I had one! Ha ha

 

That's one hell of a wife. I'd agree too. I wouldn't let another woman touch my wife's property. but if she's ok with a guy sucking it so am I.

 

It don't hurt any at all. I have a friend who likes to mess around sometimes and it's nice cause I'm always horney it seems like. I feel alittle lucky cause not everyone can walk over to there buddy and put there mouth on his cock. I like sucking his dick alot it's fun, and who knows tomorrow I might want a blow job. Having your dick sucked is the most amazing feeling ever to me. I love sucking cock and giving back.

 

I can only dream. But since I just moved to California I’m sure it’s gonna happen now. San Francisco is only 45 min from my house so that’s always an option.

 

I let my wife talk me into letting her peg me. I liked it. I wanted more and she got insecure and mad. If she would have kept going I would be ok. Now I fantasize about cock. Sucking it and riding it. The thing is I really don't think it will ever happen. I'm pretty sure if the opportunity came along I'd be all over it. I need a friend.

 

Similar here. Mid 50s, been married for 20+ years. When we first married she was smokin hot and very sexually adventurous. We thought about swapping, swinging, did several MFM and she'd peg me, which I loved. She knew about my MM sex in HS and college. Turned her on to the point of suggesting a bi guy for a MMF. Unfortunately never found the right guy. Over the past few years she's gotten more and more conservative.....no porn, no toys, just lights off missionary or doggy if I'm lucky. She's let herself go and packed on almost 50 pounds which is a big visual turnoff. We haven't had sex in 2 years, and she wonders why? She used to be fit and always horny. Now she's "large" and if I wanted to have sex with her, it takes too much work and I just can't get past the visual aspect of her rolls. No, I haven't let myself go. A little more silver hair but I weigh the same as when we met, and my chest still sticks out farther than my stomach.

As for the attraction to cock........guys are always horny and don't need to be wined and dined, or clean the house for them to get them in the mood. Some cocks are just beautiful, and if I could find a guy (preferable a married bi guy) I think I'd happily take him in my mouth and ass. As mentioned, if that king of man fell in my lap I'd be all over it!

 

I havnt, but I'm working on it. Sex at home with my wife is about non existant. Not necessarily her fault. I find as Ive aged I'm more curious about same gender sex. I touched on it lightly in my teen years. I'm not apt to let it happen with just anyone. I have a couple acquaintances I know that I'd be willing to do this with. I know too they'd be willing. Getting the opportunity hasn't been easy though.

 

San Francisco... P-Town West.

 

Sounds like you'd be falling (lowering yourself) on his lap. There's PLENTY of older married men in sexless marriages that would jump at the opportunity to use another guy's mouth or ass, you just have to know where to find them.
You're right though... Some cocks are just beautiful, and they ALL need attention. Good luck, hope you find yourself a beautiful cock to focus your attention on

 

BJs never hurt anybody. I don't even see why families don't just give each other bj's sometimes. It's just a blowjob. Maybe the teacher at school wants a blowjob, why not? What's the big deal?

 

Got a neighbor that fucked me the other day frost time I ever had it in my ass

 

But did you enjoy the butt fuck ?

 

Yes after awhile I did have u ever done it

 

Yes. I have. And I Love it.

 

I think I was pretty straight at one time, young , married, loved my wife, loved the sex we had together, then I went to an adult bookstore. I got a bj from a young guy, never had a bj to completion before, loved it . Soon it was a regular thing and of course I got to wondering why another man found it exciting to suck me. I had to try it. I did, loved it . Oh then I had some experience performing penetration anally on a few guys. Again curious, had to try it. I did , loved it . Eventually I became a closeted bottom , and eventually a bisexual cuckold for a black bull . This was over many years of transformation. Wish I would of got it all out there when I was young , I’m sure I missed out on a lot of great sex because of hangups that took years to peel away . My advice , go for it , if you think you might like , you probably will love.

 

If you enjoyed it , just wait till you find a true monster cock . And if you can’t , try fisting . That’s when you discover you can have a female type orgasm

 

I’m 56 and married 33 years. I’ve always been fascinated with men. Well 15 years ago it started with a blowjob and now it’s evolved to lots of anonymous cock sucking and being the bitch to a big black man every weekend. I’ve always considered myself very masculine but he has turned me into a faggot. The sex is so much better with him than my wife. The problem is I’m falling for him and now I don’t know how to break it off. He puts a spell on me when I’m with him. I hardly have sex with my wife anymore because I’m much more comfortable with a man. It’s a frustrating life coming to terms that I might be gay. I can’t leave my marriage or let anyone find out.

 

Remember the famous quote. “It’s cheeper to keep her” You can have the best of both worlds. Unless you want to give half your life savings and stuff away I would keep it to yourself.

 

Been there, done that, wrote the check!

 

Why not approach them then! I used to be curious also until I finally had a guy and now it's a every day affair!