What are your thoughts as you lay in bed thinking about an older man. What kind of dripping wet imagines come to mind. What do you want to happen. What do you need to happen? Tell us all about it.
Indeed, and it says a lot about today's young male culture that young gals are literally flocking to older male. Unfortunately there is certainly an assault on masculinity today. Also a "conjoining" of the sexes in a narrative driven push to end traditional sex roles. It is unfortunate. The world needs strong males.
I like it when a man is gentle, considerate, confident, no bs, straight to the point, kind. Because we'll know what we want rather than "messing around" with someone indecisive. That's my safe-for-work answer.
I have discovered the answer very easily. My buddy and i were at a rodeo after party at a bar. The place was jammed with everybody hitting on everybody else. My buddy and I were fortunate enough to get 2 bar stools. We just sat there drinking our beers with absolutely no intention of hooking up. We were in our early 40's. About an hour later 2 girls in their early 20's approached a little tipsy and said there are no more places to sit can we sir on your laps? I looked at my buddy and he looked at me and we both just smiled. We bought them a beer and as time went on we wound up in their camper trailer. Yes it took no effort and there was about a 20 year age difference. Life is good.
I agree with some things I’ve read here. I recently started seeing an older guy for the first time and the things that stood out to me initially was his confidence (not in an arrogant way), his kindness and ability to compliment me on things other than my physical appearance, his ability to hold a conversation and to ask me questions, and the slightly graying hair and beard was a bonus