Hey, it's me, TheLittleOne. I have a situation. i dont think you read my post before the server went down, so i'll re-explain. I have been with my bf for six months now...our relationship hasn't been as great as it was when we first got together...he seems sullen and depressed when he's around me....and i am frustrated when i'm alone, but he makes me happy to just see him, so i never say anything about my problems w/ the relationship. i finally did last weekend, and he kinda just tuned me out. he thought there was nothing wrong w/ our relaitonship. meanwhile, he's still in high school, works a butt-load...and rarely has time to spend with me. i love him...but he still has another year of high school left ....and then he'll go off to a good college, and i'll be left here.... i havent gone back to college...i'm having problems at home. i have no car anymore. i sleep on the couch, and am always on my toes around here, cuz my parents are just ready to kick me out. i'm borderline alcoholic...an insomniac...i havent been faithful to my bf because he never has time to be intimate with me....which i really have a problem with.... annnnnd there's more. my good friend is back visiting from the army and claims to be in love with me. he wants to buy a house and move me to florida to be with him. i like this guy alot.....love is a possiblility in the future...but i dont know if i could make him happy...or if i'd be happy with myself. by that point, i dont know if i will be with my bf....i will probably be willing to leave him....my parents want me to be a slave in their house forever and be their little bitch.... the army guy, sean, is leaving for korea this saturday, and will return in december to come get me, he says....and i trust he will....he's crazy about me.... i know you cant tell me what i should do, but i sure could use some advice from someone wise, which i know you are. my parents want me to go back to school and be stuck here forever, which i cant see myself doing, and will not enjoy. i cant make it here. there are too many temptations... so, your advice would be greatly appreciated. thank you in advance.